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    So ok I just got back from the hospital had some chest pains got to go to the pulmonologist tomarrow.

    Anyways while sitting there waiting for my ride got into a conversation and ended up giving my phone number to this guy ( your not gonna believe how he got it from me)

    So anyways he told me his name told me hed be calling and I told him that Ive got physical issues problems with obesity he could call and be my cell friend but right now I want to drop weight before I actually date.

    So he says he likes big girls anyways would still like to go out I said Id consider it but that I still cant be real physical as far as men goes right now he said he was ok with that.

    Then he told me that he just got out of prison 3 weeks ago and hes living in a halfway house I mean and that if I get a funny number on my phone when he calls its ok it would be him.

    He says hell be very busy because he has to work a lot as a part of his rehabilitation.

    I don't know yet if well go out. Nut anyways lets just say I do.

    What exactly are the statistics for men going back to prison how likely is he?

    What about dating after they get back into society? Do marriages stay together with exprisoners who get married after they get out verses those who marry in prison?


    I know that if you marry while theyre in prison statistics for divorce are sadly high are they just as high and risky for someone who waits till he gets out to marry?

    Kind of cool huh is it coincidence or fate?

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    OK he said he might call you. But he might not. Why are you thinking out dating and marriage when all he's said is that he might want to call you?

    I get the impression you don't have much experience with the opposite sex. And that's fine. We all start somewhere. Take things slowly, would be my advice. You'll scare him off if he finds out that you have been asking about marriage.

    In terms of recidivism, it depends on his crime. Statistically, murderers are least likely to re-offend. Robbers are most likely to re-offend. Food for thought since you previously dismissed murderers and sent a letter to a robber.

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    Oh no I didn't mean Im interested in marrying him at all I miscommunicated. The reason why I brought that up is just because he might or might not ask me but sense I had never been approached by an ex prisoner I just started thinking about that its just a topic that popped up in my mind but no I don't even know if Im gonna go out with him. Like I said Ive got a long way to go on my weight issues anyways. But it was just a question that popped up in my mind because of the situation and I was just wondering is all.Its interesting though wonder how long hes been in.

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    Is it coincidence or fate? I think it's neither. How likely do I think that you met someone that was just released from prison and that you actually gave him your phone number? Not likely. I call BS on the whole thing. Someone that wanted WAP to pull their letter and is going to get a PO box so that inmates that are currently incarcerated do not have their address, doesn't give a stranger their phone number, much less one that just got out of prison. What if he was in for murder? No, I don't think it's likely that you gave him your phone number. I wouldn't run out and buy a wedding dress just yet.

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    I never ever said he gave me his phone number and as for me giving him mine mine is a cell number only which Ive done for several men before who didn't know me. But my cell is safe and you cant trace my address by it and he doesn't have my last name. If I were to meet him it would be to meet in a public place only but I give my cell number out to guy friends I meet on the net so. But if you don't want to believe I don't care don't believe ..................but its not dangerous for me to give out my cell sorry

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    Of course what your really saying though is that men who get released from prison don't date. Because in order for a man to date he either has to strictly date someone that hes known all his life through his family or something or else hes gonna have to give out his phone number to a woman he doesn't know how else do you think hes going to be able to date? So your assuming and claiming the behavior or 100 percent of every man whos gets released concerning dtainh which is ridiculous presumptuous your not God you don't know didly about this God that's rea;; wow judgementala nd rude and you don't know didly about me so if you want to call it BS go ahead but that's about the crudest post anyones eevr sent me and its rude

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    sorry about misspelled words its early dtaunh is meant to be dating

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    Quote Originally Posted by elizabethindfw View Post
    I never ever said he gave me his phone number and as for me giving him mine mine is a cell number only which Ive done for several men before who didn't know me. But my cell is safe and you cant trace my address by it and he doesn't have my last name. If I were to meet him it would be to meet in a public place only but I give my cell number out to guy friends I meet on the net so. But if you don't want to believe I don't care don't believe ..................but its not dangerous for me to give out my cell sorry
    Take a chill pill You need one.
    How are we supposed to know you have a cell especially for hookups? I don't even give my number out to my coworkers, let alone some dude I meet at a hospital. It's even stranger that you told him you can't do anything physical as far as men go... you just met the guy! At the moment I just want to believe you made the story up to get some attention out of us, because it's much worse if it's true that you really give out your number as easily as that and basically tell them "Whelp, I would want to have sex but I can't yet.. just hang around a few more months." You're setting yourself up for a world of hurt if it's true...
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    I think they call that Munchausen... Not trying to be rude here, but this kind of behavior got me wondering...


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    Of course released inmates date. Hell, some of them are so anxious to jump into a relationship that they'll jump onto anything that passes. Not all of them are like that, and I don't think anyone here is trying to be judgmental about inmates. Most of us made a conscious choice to write to inmates, so we tend to be more empathetic towards the inmate population, I believe.

    I think what NorthenLight is trying to say that from your forum postings, it doesn't seem as if you are the type who would truly consider having a relationship with an inmate -whether released or incarcerated - because of the rather rigid parameters you seem to have regarding criminals. Truthfully, it almost seems as if you are seeking some sort of bad boy thrill - as long as it's from a safe distance - but an inmate/ex-inmate isn't a toy...and I'm sorry, but your postings come across as if that is the case.

    And the defensiveness doesn't really do you any favours either. No one here is going to coddle you. Of course we don't know you; just as you don't know any of us. But if youre going to accuse "us" of being judgmental, I think it behooves you to turn the mirror upon yourself as well?

    Plus the grammar police within me just has to say: it's SINCE, not sense.
    Last edited by Earthmother; 09-24-2013 at 09:59 AM.

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