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    LOLIS THIS WOMEN FOR REAL

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    Hello,

    I do not understand your post and also the fact that you are as much in the defensive of the “judgement”…: (I do not have the feeling which you are really clear on your motivations which push you with poster here….
    I do not judge the fact that you are for though it is, and I respect the fact that you have a long way to traverse due to your disease. I wish you besides a good courage because the life does not spoil us inevitably. The way is hard for certain and it is true that it is necessary to be armed with courage and will.
    On the other hand, I will wish to return on your posts. I have a little the feeling to see one “yes, but not, but I do not know, but in any manners everyone always criticizes me”. It is a little disconcerting, more especially as certain people here try to help you.
    I do not go épiloguer, because moreover, to think so that I will tell you in English will take too much time to me, therefore I directly write this message on “google translation”.
    I request from you, Madam, to cease poster of the messages which indicates things confused and full with contradiction towards yourself. Nobody knows what to tell you when that concerns you because you are always on the defensive. And I do not draw from conclusion hasty…. I often do not post, but I read much. And it is that which I note since your arrival.
    Last edited by Ozalee; 09-24-2013 at 04:41 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blondgal View Post
    LOLIS THIS WOMEN FOR REAL
    Kinda hoping the answer is a resounding NO......

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    If she is I feel bad for her; she's in for a world of hurt- and some inmate is in for.... well just read the posts....

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    It´s confusing and a bit depressing.... I think I have to read some of our crazy dreamboat post so I can go to bed smiling and in a good mood.
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    We all have problems in our lives and I think that she is not alone to know what is a world of hurt Maybe........................................Maybe maybe maybe inmates have a very good idea of this ^^ and personnaly i am more interested to write to enjoy a lot someone than writing him all the problems of the life (that wouldn't say that i write like a teddybear huh? Lol xD)

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    Well some people must agree with her...she got four green reputation marks today. LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by elizabethindfw View Post
    So ok I just got back from the hospital had some chest pains got to go to the pulmonologist tomarrow.

    Anyways while sitting there waiting for my ride got into a conversation and ended up giving my phone number to this guy ( your not gonna believe how he got it from me)

    So anyways he told me his name told me hed be calling and I told him that Ive got physical issues problems with obesity he could call and be my cell friend but right now I want to drop weight before I actually date.

    So he says he likes big girls anyways would still like to go out I said Id consider it but that I still cant be real physical as far as men goes right now he said he was ok with that.

    Then he told me that he just got out of prison 3 weeks ago and hes living in a halfway house I mean and that if I get a funny number on my phone when he calls its ok it would be him.

    He says hell be very busy because he has to work a lot as a part of his rehabilitation.

    I don't know yet if well go out. Nut anyways lets just say I do.

    What exactly are the statistics for men going back to prison how likely is he?

    What about dating after they get back into society? Do marriages stay together with exprisoners who get married after they get out verses those who marry in prison?


    I know that if you marry while theyre in prison statistics for divorce are sadly high are they just as high and risky for someone who waits till he gets out to marry?

    Kind of cool huh is it coincidence or fate?
    Throwing in a word of caution, some ex-inmates try to find a place to live once they are forced out of prison or a halfway house. Of course I have no idea if this guy is like that but I wanted to warn you of being used. You seem to have a big heart and unfortunately it is people like you that sometimes get taken advantage of. I saw tread carefully.

    I wish you all the best, Josh
    Fear can hold you prisoner. Hope can set you free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by elizabethindfw View Post
    I never ever said he gave me his phone number and as for me giving him mine mine is a cell number only which Ive done for several men before who didn't know me. But my cell is safe and you cant trace my address by it and he doesn't have my last name. If I were to meet him it would be to meet in a public place only but I give my cell number out to guy friends I meet on the net so. But if you don't want to believe I don't care don't believe ..................but its not dangerous for me to give out my cell sorry
    You'd be surprised what little info an identity their needs to find out anything about you. I just watched a program that said with two pieces of information someone could find out everything about you and steal your identity etc.

    I once got a cell number from a guy in California, we chatted briefly on the phone. Later I googled his number and just using google I found out his real name, and then his facebook.
    Fear can hold you prisoner. Hope can set you free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by elizabethindfw View Post
    The reason why I brought that up is just because he might or might not ask me but sense I had never been approached by an ex prisoner...
    But that's just it, you wont know if you've been approached by an ex-inmate unless he tells you. Not all of them will announce it in the first sentence of their chat-up routine.

    You live in Texas, right? The chances of you being in the same room as ex-inmate is extremely high if you go to a hospital, bus station, mall, Walmart, etc. Your state releases 70,000 inmates every year (off paper, or on parole). They (thankfully) don't have to walk around wearing a badge to say so.

    I think Josh might be on the right lines with his comments. But either way, 1 in 3 marriages end in divorce regardless of the individual circumstances.





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    Are the marks of a wise man:
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    What happens may not be hidden.
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