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    Default Deceitful Female Penpal UPDATE!!

    Well i don't feel so bad now that I see this man here has been took for 28k by the same person I wasted 4k on. For those who wondered if I was lying check this guy's detailed story out. Here is the link. https://liarscheatersrus.com/hickory...comment-page-1

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    I don't think anyone thought you were lying - we just were questioning that you'd given so much money in the first place.





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    It wasn't about the money to me. I just couldn't believe she was so ungrateful and hell bent on evil. But now I see their is no limit to what this girl will do. I have money but I know better than to give someone like her 28K . The money I spent was from my heart not because I thought she would be my girlfriend are anything like that. If you notice in all her pictures she never smiles, that's because her teeth are rotten. To me she wasn't a pretty girl for numerous reasons. But I feel bad for that guy. Only God knows who is the next victim.

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    I did not see the original post so unfortunately I don't have a frame of reference. I'm sure she had her A game if she was able to manipulate to that degree. I have never been in that situation before, but what puzzles me is why you are still googling for either validation of your feelings or some form of status update through the eyes of someone else. It's only going to create anger and pain. Is the same reason why I don't look people up on Facebook that I have severed ties with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deckard View Post
    I'm sure she had her A game if she was able to manipulate to that degree.
    I'm not picking at you, or the original poster, or anyone else for that matter, but I want to make this 100% clear: A manipulator cannot manipulate anyone, unless the intended manipulatee is manipulatable.
    1. Yes I know that is not proper terminology.
    2. Yes, I AM speaking from personal experience.
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    I'm not entirely clear what is going on in this thread but anyone giving anyone else thousands of dollars makes me...???????? Huh? Why is someone giving someone thousands of dollars? All that says to me is that the giver, who might be the nicest person in the world, is extremely naive, misguided, and really has some self reflecting to do.

    Funny how you could give someone a million dollars and they're still not going to (or bound to) love you or do what you want.

    It's not (or shouldn't be) a surprise that some people will take you for as many thousands as you want to throw at them. We don't want to believe it can be true but it is. Those who make a romance out of it to get that money are especially odious but those who give that money naively are not "blameless."

    My empathy to anyone who has been taken, my extreme caution to those who do the taking: consequences for actions are real. Don't be surprised when you get a lot of pain and drama in life if that's what you're dishing out.


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    I have no feelings for her, none what so ever. You wonder why I'm posting that up here? Well the answer is simple the same reason you warn people about diseases is the same reason I'm warning people about her because who is to say they want be the next victim. Key word is Exposure.

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    I have to say that reading that account: sure, she's a dirtbag, clearly. Hate to say it but the world is full of them so it's not a surprise. But my bigger mystery is this benefactor?

    "I was giving her 1,200$ a month allowance." Why? Is she a child that needs allowance? Sounds to me like sex was service she performed or promised in order to earn her allowance. Why else on god's green earth would you give someone that amount of money? Seriously. Because you are a nice person and she is in need?
    I wish these people would come see me about some very fine charities that exist in the world that will happily take their money and put it to extremely good use, if they feel a need to donate money somewhere.

    We will never be able to write it in big enough, red flag enough font:
    Do not give large amounts of money to prisoners!!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by KAM View Post
    I'm not picking at you, or the original poster, or anyone else for that matter, but I want to make this 100% clear: A manipulator cannot manipulate anyone, unless the intended manipulatee is manipulatable.
    1. Yes I know that is not proper terminology.
    2. Yes, I AM speaking from personal experience.
    I agree !

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    Quote Originally Posted by gooddog View Post
    I have to say that reading that account: sure, she's a dirtbag, clearly. Hate to say it but the world is full of them so it's not a surprise. But my bigger mystery is this benefactor?

    "I was giving her 1,200$ a month allowance." Why? Is she a child that needs allowance? Sounds to me like sex was service she performed or promised in order to earn her allowance. Why else on god's green earth would you give someone that amount of money? Seriously. Because you are a nice person and she is in need?
    I wish these people would come see me about some very fine charities that exist in the world that will happily take their money and put it to extremely good use, if they feel a need to donate money somewhere.

    We will never be able to write it in big enough, red flag enough font:
    Do not give large amounts of money to prisoners!!!!
    I agree 100% with you ... I'm very sorry to read about Scoop1980's bad experience with this ***** woman ... Everyone also is free to use own money as wish but we also have to be realist, if a guy or woman is behind the bars is 'cos 99% made big mistakes and because they are not "angels" ... But we have to be careful because most of times they always tell "same story", they are lonely, no family no friends take care of them, everyone forget them, they have no financial support, etc etc. Some of them maybe they are in such situation but most of them they aren't. All depend from us don't allow to be used. Because when I read how much money this man give to her I was shocked !?! I always known of women being manipulated from inmates but not men ... My opinion is : no money no presents will never "buy" friendship ... love ... respect ...
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