Off Topic ChatterDiscuss Have a moan about something.... in the Non-Prison Related Issues forums; Originally Posted by queenbella
You're confusing me with yourself <3
i want a divorce! a FINAL one this time not ...
You know what? I am very close to someone in prison. When I first met him, I saw strange anger surges in him that had nothing to do with me. I watched him like an experiment on that one! Soon enough, it ALL came out, WHY he was in these moods and that it was the OPPOSITE of having anything to do with me. They sometimes don't know how to talk about any of this until you call them on it. I don't think he would do that to me again cuz I'd detect it in his voice like a private eye and say "what's wrong with you" within 5 seconds and then he'd spill the beans like he was given truth serum, lol. (I'm so annoying!) Either it goes this way, OR, he's a jerk and reveals himself to be a jerk through anger and manipulation. I sincerely hope it is the former and not the latter with him, time will tell. Hold steady. Good luck. There were times I had to knock some sense into mine, trust me and it was pretty amazing to see big tough prison guy culled like a kitten if I came with it. LOL. I'm making comparisons here where maybe none are applicable but yeah. Hope you can sort it and he calms down and gets right. March is a long time to wait and I'm sure it did disappoint him. Keep on writing!
Yep i asked him what was up !! and i had an email this morning saying he really was disappointed with it all and that he had fell out with his mom. This man is so nice, but he has alot of anger inside i think. I will keep talking to him and sending letters and i think in time he will be just fine. He keeps thinking i am going to go and not come back. Would love to give him a hug.