Just because its happenned before doesn't excuse us for being harsh. First time posters should be nurtured, not lambasted.

Originally Posted by VikingChick

Actually, I remember someone posting about this guy not long ago. And it was a similar story, and the poster sounded very much like this one. I think this is someone out to get a person. Not very nice, if you ask me.

I really agree with Sunray on this. The poster had the power to say no. And to hang someone out to dry like this is wrong.

I'm in agreement with you all. I just think we could have been gentler with the woman. I remember some of the harsh responses I got to my first, trepidacious posts. I'm something of an old hand at writing to prisoners, but was very new to the internet and this forum.

I agree his name should not be posted here-against the wap rules isnt it? NOt everybody is emotionally strong and anyone of us in the world can get duped, over various issues. Yes in this situation we the pp have the upper hand so to speak but you know when emotions come into it, its difficult, especially when your own life is not in great shape.

Its just a very very hard lesson to have learned and I wish the op all the best for the future -

I dont mean to sound harsh either, but how do we know she speaks the truth about ANYTHING her health included? I think these kind of threads should just be ignored.

Originally Posted by Silas Sydenham

Just because its happenned before doesn't excuse us for being harsh. First time posters should be nurtured, not lambasted.

why should we feed the troll? I'm gonna write this guy and give him the chance to tell his story

Originally Posted by FreakLikeMe

I dont mean to sound harsh either, but how do we know she speaks the truth about ANYTHING her health included? I think these kind of threads should just be ignored.

That's just the point. All we can do is take each other at the face value we present on the forum. You and I have had a go at each other, several times., but we're over that now. For all you guys know I might be a woman masquerading as a poofter.

When I came to this forum the only post I knew of was a thing in the street that you tied your horse to. It's been a fast learning curve for some of us, and I think the old hands should make it easy for the newbies to feel comfortable. Correct mistakes, sure, but not make them feel like shyt.

Originally Posted by Silas Sydenham

That's just the point. All we can do is take each other at the face value we present on the forum. You and I have had a go at each other, several times., but we're over that now. For all you guys know I might be a woman masquerading as a poofter.

I knew there was something ODD about you, i just couldnt put my finger on it.. (((silas)))

Originally Posted by FreakLikeMe

I knew there was something ODD about you, i just couldnt put my finger on it.. (((silas)))

There are several things ODD about me, but I ain't gonna let your finger anywheres near them.

Originally Posted by Silas Sydenham

There are several things ODD about me, but I ain't gonna let your finger anywheres near them.

Now who isnt playing nicely.. I thought you were a sharing giving man..:-)

Originally Posted by FreakLikeMe

Now who isnt playing nicely.. I thought you were a sharing giving man..:-)

I am playing very nicely. I always share my toys. But I rarely give anything awaythere is so little to give.