So after a lot soul searching I have decided to join. I was cruising the profiles and was just drawn to one of them. I struggled for awhile, wondering if I could really handle, engage, love, like, befriend, support, and bring inspiration to this person. I struggled with societies view on these things and how I was told by many that I was just inviting trouble into my life. I listened and contemplated and soon I just listened to myself. Everyone can change, heck I have things in my past that I am not proud of but I am not that person anymore. It made me who I am but I have moved on. There is plenty of room in my heart for him and I forgive him for what he has done. I wish more people could. So despite all the negative nelly's out there I have contacted him. I trust in my heart that we will be able to have a true friendship, one that isn't influenced by all the mainstream nonsense. I hope to hear from all of you and look forward to what I know will be a rewarding experience for all of us.