Of course you should live normally,even flert and date,how do you know there isn't someone that suits you better out here?
If he was outside and you were in prison would he stop having a life?Would he even write you in the first place?Probably not.So don't even think about just waiting for him.
I may sound a bit harsh but I just wanted to make clear how strongly I believe what I'm saying.
I could never get people to respect me for who I am,then Arnold came...and made me think,people will respect me for what I look like.
To ask well, to answer rightly,
Are the marks of a wise man:
Men must speak of men's deeds,
What happens may not be hidden. ~ The Havamal