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    I have 2 p/p that I write to and 5 p/p on corrlinks. Why do they all have to fall in love?
    I only ever write about work, what Im up to, normal things....but now I get letters & emails all professing love and wanting to come over here when they get out. I know they can be lonely and I try to make them smile and cheer them up..but Geez...LOVE???
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    All of them???? You are popular!! Well I dont know, like you said they can be lonely and so on. Depends on how long you been writing to them and how you feel the connection is. Perhaps they feel like Australia will be a better place or something, which I'm sure for some of them it could well be. Question is do you feel similar about any of them? I think writing can be very intimate and therefore can easily lead to love or at the very least have a deeper connection than if you were all going about your buisness on the outside. I guess if you really are not interested in any of them you should gently let them know.....see what happens.

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    I'm guessing that they've been waiting for someone to come along. I mean they have all this time waiting for someone to come along and maybe at first they just want friends. They've saved up or dished out the money to be on this site. They've sat there thinking of the perfect friend and how all she/he has to do is write to them. Then here you come writing them and not being all bad guy tough sh!t like their fellow roommates and they're just so happy. They've been thinking of that best friend. And somewhere along the lines friend and girlfriend combine and it seems to be pretty awesome that they can't help it. . . Thats just my 2cents
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    If i listen to my pps i'm the most wonderful creature they have never met ! They want to come here and leave their family and kids! Do i believe them? hell no! I'm not naive enough to think that! I don't want to sound mean but they're probably doing the same smooth talk to other pps. I think it's kinda funny though

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    I can't even imagine what that must feel like.. I'm not going through any of that with my guy thank god, but if you don't wanna deal with stuff like that then I think the best remedy is just let them know. GENTLY! we don't want to crush any feelings or hearts here... but if you don't talk about it, then it just builds up until you've had enough of it and you get so annoyed that you'll explode, or worse, you get up and leave and that's not how it works. maybe what I just mentioned won't happen, there are really 'zen' people on this planet but if you don't say anything to him, then your relationship won't grow and it won't go into the right direction, so imo you NEED to talk about it
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    tikamoi, I hope you are right that they are saying the same thing so everyone..guess Im feeling a bit overwhelmed cause I got it all in the same week and I wasnt expecting any of it. And Pip you are also right. I do need to get it together and write. I dont want to loose any of them as p/p. I really enjoy hearing from them. Just dont want it going in that direction.

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    The same thing happens on the internet all the time. you write and write...sometimes for years....cause the distance so great and none of you got the money to buy a ticket! That is the time you are 100% he/she is the ONE!
    Then you actually meet and it usually isnt at all how you thought/ fantasized about the relationship.
    It is really easy to fall in love, but is it really love?

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    Don't feel bad to tell them you're not interested, they're grown men... they can handle it! How long have you been writing your guys?

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    I don't scoff at someone feeling love for someone they've never met in person. It may not be the same as "I can live with you for life and comprimise about the things I don't like about you and weather the storm with you when the roof caves in," but it is a feeling of love in the heart. It can be a compliment in a way but like everyone said, let them down easy, explain yourself and communicate, yep, they can take it and turn it around and remain friends. If not, well, then not. But it's true, some are quite lonely, and it's easy to have feelings for someone who is nice and paying attention to them.
    It's always easy to leave your family and kids for someone who seems easy and problem free and a fantasy...of course that's just a fantasy. You can let them know that too.

    Being kind will be a great benefit and probably allow you to keep all if not most of your pals. In the end, if it makes anyone miserable because they are looking for that one special person and you are not it, yeah, it can be kinder to let them go find her, but maybe you don't have to get on that level. Good luck, loved one!
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    I guess like gooddog said the love is easy to find. Then again I'm a very emotional person. But I have love for the guys I write. Not IN love with all of them but I have love. I'm spreading the love around in my letters, lol. I wish I could give them all big hugs and kisses. I have one I would like to get to meet one day but those hugs and kisses will have to wait because even if I could go see him he's going to be all locked up behind glass. So for now it's just the phone and jpay.

    If they are all IN love with you, just let them down gently like everyone else said.
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