Re: OK here goes !!!
I will probably get shot down in flames.. but i think i know what im talking about.. and ive just started to live in real reality although i didnt have my head in pink fluffy clouds, i did have hope that somehow it would all workout.. Thankfully my relationship has come to an end. so now we dont have to face the coming out crap..
its all very easy standing by a man for many years, everything is no problem to them.. fact is they would of been doing what their doing anyway with or without us..
I dont know how long your PP has, but chances are he wont be able to come here thats if he would even be willing to up sticks and leave all he knows. and most probably you wont be able to get there, would you want too.. in my 10/11 years ive seen one couple make it past the coming out. he has managed to get here.
long distance relationships are fine while their locked up, but if he gets out it wont work, you can bet your bottom dollar he isnt going to be faithful. so it will most probably end then..
Im not saying your PP isnt true to his word.. but try NOT sending money. alot of guys have a few penpals sending a few dollars here and there it gets them by.. just test your relationship with no money deposits..
if he has a baby momma.. chances are she will be back sniffing around come the end of the sentence making promises and all that.. he will most probably be gone.
I would suggest you look past the cute letters/calls. and ask yourself some questions and answer honestly.
when it comes to reality having someones heart is not enough to keep a relationship going.. if it were there would be a whole lot more excons here. and european women there living happily ever after..
" Your time is limited, dont waste it living someone elses life"
"If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again."