Originally Posted by mountanddo

There is a reason for that and as far as I can see it's been going on A LOT longer than a few months. I wonder why that is? Seems like people come and go here yet some of the same people stay. It's an eye opener that's for sure.

Thing is though, some people probably leave because things go south with the pp stuff not always because they've been driven off the forum. And as far as feeling driven off the forum by bullies, cliques, whatever- thing is, that's a choice. You can stay here for as long as you like dissenting, being controversial than the "current" group think, or whatever you want to be. You have a right to post whatever you want it's just that some people are more likely to answer back to it if they don't like it than others.

I often wish that some of the more firey members that were often dissenting would not feel they have to leave because IMO they didn't have to.

The purpose of WAP is to find pp's for inmates not to have a forum, but, since it's here, I enjoy it and I wish others would too if they want.

Originally Posted by mountanddo

Then I guess I'd have to question how thick their skin is. Really? people left because of little 'ole me. I'm flattered yet I highly doubt it. This thread wasn't perfectly fine from the very FIRST post which was simply posted for ulterior reasons along with the 4-5 posts that followed. The rest of the forum members are expected to sit back and watch a bunch of woman trash them in a forum and not respond to it? Maybe we should start a thread about internet bullying because that's exactly what this forum has become. and yes I think that rigid moderation in this forum is needed.

Internet bullying? Is that like the cheap shot you took at another member in that other thread, just to make a witty retort? Where you ridiculed someone who had never said anything to you in the first place? Oh yeah, you're such a nice lady, aren't ya?

If someone disagree with you on a subject, you get all defensive and you just don't stop. Just like a dog with a bone!

Originally Posted by mountanddo

Then I guess I'd have to question how thick their skin is. Really? people left because of little 'ole me. I'm flattered yet I highly doubt it. This thread wasn't perfectly fine from the very FIRST post which was simply posted for ulterior reasons along with the 4-5 posts that followed. The rest of the forum members are expected to sit back and watch a bunch of woman trash them in a forum and not respond to it? Maybe we should start a thread about internet bullying because that's exactly what this forum has become. and yes I think that rigid moderation in this forum is needed.

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Oh please. The girl was never leaving to begin with. I suspect someone put her up to the initial post in the first place. and since some of these posters believed she didn't even have a pen pal to begin with I wonder how she feels being a pawn in their little game?

I know she was never leaving it is a game, now they are telling others to leave the forum and post on blogs instead, they want to be self appointed mods. They have also shown by remarks they are still upset by whom you" choose to write or beliefs.

Originally Posted by peanut2

I know she was never leaving it is a game, now they are telling others to leave the forum and post on blogs instead, they want to be self appointed mods. They have also shown by remarks they are still upset by whom you" choose to write or beliefs.

Yes, I know. I again will say that I just don't know how I live with myself writing people that are innocent. I've been portrayed as stupid. hmmm...yes believing in one's innocence has always made me lean toward believing that. I suppose that I shall get some therapy so that I can see my pen pals for what they really are. Perhaps after I've convinced myself that they really are guilty I shall marry one.

*facepalm*facepalm*facepalm*

Originally Posted by VikingChick

I did try my best, but I was not as good as AmberLeigh...

I have my moments.....

Originally Posted by AmberLeigh

I have my moments.....

Face slap no chit" this thread starts with drama of leaving, then turns into telling others to leave and the org poster is staying lol oh come on !!!! S

Originally Posted by peanut2

Face slap no chit" this thread starts with drama of leaving, then turns into telling others to leave and the org poster is staying lol oh come on !!!! S

Yeah, I mean if she believes that she has so much support from other forum members why would she have felt the need to leave in the first place.

Things that make you go hmmm.........

Originally Posted by mountanddo

Then I guess I'd have to question how thick their skin is. Really? people left because of little 'ole me. I'm flattered yet I highly doubt it. This thread wasn't perfectly fine from the very FIRST post which was simply posted for ulterior reasons along with the 4-5 posts that followed. The rest of the forum members are expected to sit back and watch a bunch of woman trash them in a forum and not respond to it? Maybe we should start a thread about internet bullying because that's exactly what this forum has become. and yes I think that rigid moderation in this forum is needed.

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Oh please. The girl was never leaving to begin with. I suspect someone put her up to the initial post in the first place. and since some of these posters believed she didn't even have a pen pal to begin with I wonder how she feels being a pawn in their little game?

She didn't point the finger at any one person she just stated her reason for leaving....than you came on and started talking about PM's and stuff. People just didn't want her to leave I am not sure why you had to say that stuff.....You could have PMed her and told her what you thought also! I am sorry but this whole mess started when you said people were talking bad about her and her relationship not when she made the post about leaving.......No one said YOU did anything till you started accusing others of PMing you stuff.

Usually I always have a comment but not this time. You guys literally sound crazy. Like I'm shocked by the steam you guys are blowing out your a$$ I wanna live in your world where everyone is high and mighty.