I write to 17 people. High number, but at the same time, might I also add, I know of at least a couple people on here who either do or have in the past written to more than that. I am not in a relationship with any of them.
As for your second question, since I'm in Canada I highly doubt that I will be able to personally meet them, nothing is impossible but I'd be very surprised if I did. I would love to, but it doesn't look too realistic as of right now.
Yes because I'm writing new people on a fairly regular basis. Or, was. I can't do that anymore. I'm maxed out, I won't even look at profiles anymore for fear I'll be tempted to add ''just one more''.
It's NOT confusing at all because obviously the content of the letters aren't the same with each person & I'm honest about everything so there's no need to be worried about what I told who. What you're describing isn't a problem for me, I've connected with all of my guys in a unique way, I definitely don't say the same stuff to all of them. There are parts that are the same, when I'm talking about me of course some of it will be but the questions I ask, & things about them are very different from one to the other. It's fine from my end.
Writing to high numbers of people at once is NOT for everybody. And I do send extras but small stuff like pictures, magazine articles, clippings, etc. I don't send money or any major things. If I did, I'd be in debt. LOL.
I'm currently writing to 3, one via Corrlinks. They're all Texas boys, but I'm going to stop writing to one of them because of some messed up stuffs he told me that really threw me off. So really I'm just writing 2