So I've been writing my pen pal in Texas for three months. At first we just sent letters back and forth but I found JPay pretty quickly into this and usually reply to his letters this way and send something to him everyday. He likes to get mail everyday and he gets lots on Monday.
I send snail mail letters about every two weeks if I want to include pictures or I printed something for him. Things have been going good, we have a lot in common and our letters seem to flow back and forth. This ONE letter that I sent snail mail though I said something that upset him. He totally took what I said out of context and misunderstood what I was trying to say. He made a lot of assumptions that just weren't true. I got this letter yesterday so I wrote him a response on JPay and now I just don't know what to do. Do I continue to send him mail every day acting like nothing happened or do I wait for him to respond to my JPay explaining what I meant.
This is REALLY hard for me. You write letters and hope that the person is understanding what you are saying when and then you get a letter that clearly shows that he did not. If I was in a room with him we'd be able to talk about it and have a conversation about it and it would probably be cleared up in about 10 minutes. This is different though. You explain yourself and then have to wait for their response. I just feel really weird writing him when I know he is upset like everything is okay. I'm not sure what to do here.