Originally Posted by prophetessacorn

actually the person that I am I would ask the question in a restaurant, if you look at like im prying I won't ask nothing else. I thought this was a board where we could share and ask things I guess not. Have a great day

It is. There just doesn't seem to be a point to your question. As others have already said, no one can make the decision except you - based on your own circumstances, beliefs, lifestyle etc Whatever any of us have decided has no bearing on your own situation or decision.

We have been sharing things. You asked, we answered. I asked, you answered. That's sharing isn't it?

And I still disagree with you that my married life is any kind of sacrifice for me. However, it may not be a life that suits you. Thing is, you probably wont know for sure until you try.

There are states that permit extended family visits, but the majority do not. For some of us, that amount of physical contact is not the most important aspect of a relationship.

I thank you all for your words, and I realize as a new member I may have came across like I was just asking a question to be answering it. That was not my intention I can be very bold at times and I apologize. I am new at this and I now realize that you all have been through a lot with question like these. I have a personal decision to make and just wanted to connect with others who have been through it. I know the decision is mine I just feel alone in this and wanted to reach out to others I apologize if I came across wrong I apologize. Thank you all once again I guess my journey is about to begin. I do appreciate all that was said.


Christina

Originally Posted by MoxieBravo

I get defensive when someone questions why I write someone on death row.

Moxie, count me in. As a matter of fact, my mom & my own family look down on people who are incarcerated, my mom is the only one who knows I'm doing this. I've explained why, but her opinion is much different. That's when it's time to think for myself.

Christina, there's lots of boldly opinioned people on this site that's why we like it! (I think?) ha ha!

It is true that when these questions get asked by new forum members that no one actually has talked to much, yeah, as was said, they are hesitant to have a bash session unleashed upon them. It's happened before you see, but people do discuss all these aspects. Check out some older threads too, some are interesting.

Thanks gooddog,


I was not trying to be like that at all, I am going through some things and I just put it out there, when I have made a decision on something no matter what others think I defend it with all that I am. I should have thought about others may not be as I am. I know now to come a little more sensitive when I have questions. Just really needed to get some support with what I am dealing with. again thanks

Well I hope whatever it is works out for you positively.