CET, you said things that I feel deep inside. Thank you! I didn't write to him to get a romance, but actually to get a friend and to support inmate for that day, he/she gets free. I have never been in jail, but it doesn't mean, that I haven't made mistakes, so I'm in no position to judge anyone as a person, even I don't agree with deeds. I'm no saint, and I don't expect my penpall to be one. All the time we hear how all offenders are monsters, and pedophiles more than others. I actually felt quilty if I would wrote to him! It is so vital to get other perspective to this!