My in laws completly suck. My sister in law planned her wedding for the same time my baby is due, in Mexico! My mother in law says she will be there. Her rational behind not changing it because of her brother and I having a baby at that time was that they were there for the last one why do they need to be there for this one! We were not even told aboutit from her, we heard it through a third party and we are not invited. Gee, makes me love em all the more.

When I was married, I used to tell people that I had "inbreeds" not inlaws, LOL. They were weird in every way.

You might not want to share this information, but I have been wondering how long you won't be able to have contact with your special penpal? Visits/letters/phone calls. I truly feel for you.

Jennifer

I got letters back Sept 1st and I have to reapply for phone and visits after March 1st This is not helping as he is the one I turn to when life gets to me... Now Ihave to wait a week to get a response instead of instant in phone calls and visits

Not in-laws....outlaws! LOL!

Well i received a phone call tonight, asking what my problem is with the family because I was snotty about the wedding date, and because one of my husbands aunts said I was rude to her when I was out with the kids saturday night. I said hi how are you doing? Havent seen you in a while what is new, how is their son, how are their granddaughters? I am trying to figure out how I was so rude to her but WHATEVER! I swear I am going to have the flu or be too tired to attend the holidays!

did your blister-in-law do this on purpose Missy? Seems a little heartless if she indeed did!!

Well, she knew before she got engaged when the baby was due, she was asked to change the date because of the baby coming and she said no, they were there when my first bio daughter was born so why do they need to be there for this one.... my response was, we were all there when she got married the first time, why does everyone need to be there again LOL, but I was told how rude I am for that comment. Yea, my in laws hate me, I have been dealing with that for 9 years, they used to at least pretend to be nice though. But whatever, today I am going to the doctor to have an ultrasound of my little peanut then I hope I will know if I am carrying a lil boy or girl

the little pea better be a girl. i really like the name olivia devonee for it so it better be.

Let me tell the doctor that one LOL, so if there is anything hanging they can cut it off for ya

Momo, I really feel for you! That must be harsh... how does your other half feel about it? My ex's mother used to speak another language in front of me and talk about me even though she (and her son) were fluent in English. It used to make me so mad, and it caused upteen problems between me and my ex. In over two years she spoke three words to me!

Mind you I'd rather have been ignored that told I was rude... much love to you Momo... and love to the bump!