I just wanted to share I went to visit my fiancee today. I just got home, I'm so sleepy. I had a great visit! I love kissing him at the beginning and end of visit. I love him holding my hand during the visit. I just love spending time with him, looking into his beautiful blue/green eyes and talk for hours. Im sad now tho, I always am when I come home from seeing him. I know I'll be there in two weeks again, but I guess cause I just saw him. He just called me. Well, I need to lay down..I'm cring and depressed because I miss him so much. I'll be alright by monday.
Did anyone have a visit this weekend? If so how did it go?
you love to hug him, love to kiss him love to hold hands with him .............hmmm I think you are in love!! Im sorry you are feeling so sad right now but as you said it will pass and it always helps knowing he loves you just as much as he loves you doesnt it? anyway how much longer is he going to be away? I will be thinking about you please let us know how you are doing during the week ok? and im really glad that you had a good time with one another!
I always used to feel exactly how you explained your feelings after going to visit MrB. It's normal to miss the one's we love.
Hang in there and in a few days, you'll feel fine and the anticipation of the next visit will over take the sadness from leaving him today. That always used to work for me.
I appreciate all of you that responded. HOSIERGUY, yes I met my fiancee off a prison site. I met him off of this one . It was just luck I guess. I was watching TV, flipping through channels one day, I saw the topic on Ricki Lake, "Women in LOve with Men Behind Bars." It sounded interesting so I left it. When I was watching it I couldnt believe how someone could fall in love with someone after the person being locked up. After the show, I went on the computer and looked up WAP. I came across this guy's ad. The picture came up first, he was gorgeous to me. I read his ad and I liked it alot so I decided to respond. Few weeks later I got a letter from him. We started writting few times a week.We got along in the letters and my feelings for him were turning from friend to more then a friend and I knew he felt the same. So Then a few months later i gave him my phone number. He called me and our feelings grew more and more. So then he asked me if he could send me a visiting form. I said sure, but was so nervous. I filled it out, sent it to his counselor and within a week after sending it, he told me ii was approved! I was like already? He said yea. I was so nervous. A week and a half later I went to visit him. I was so shy when I first met him. Couldnt look at him in the eye for a while LOL. I started to visit him every two weeks. A few months later, he got on one knee in the visiting room, said all this sweet stuff and proposed to me. I started to cry and said YES!!. The whole room clapped I was so embarrassed, my cheeks were red. It's been almost a yr that we been together. We love each other very much.Do you have a PP or girlfriend/wife in prison?
Feline, Thanks alot. Yea we had a great visit. This week will go by fast I know, the week that I dont see him goes by fast, next week will drag I know .
Gilly, My fiancee has lil less then 3 yrs left.He has been in for 7 yrs now! If he is a good boy, he will get out end of 2007 and go to half way house for 6 months. Then i could take him home on the weekends. If he isnt a good boy and the DOC decided to keep him, then he gets out early 2008. It seems forever but I know some people have longer til their loved ones get out.It's been almost a yr now, it doesnt seem that long, but it is, I think thats a good thing. On the other hand, it seems longer cause we are so much in love and it feels like we known each other forever. Knowing our love will last makes it all feel better. Having someone that I love, love me the same amount I love him makes it all worth it.You said you will be thinking of me, thank you! I'll let u know how I am doing.
Marlena, Yea, I'm greatful I'm able to visit him. I know that people on here, their loved ones/friends live to far to visit. I wish he was closer tho, So I could visit every weekend instead of every two weeks, but every two weeks isnt so bad when I think about it. .
Miranda, You felt the same huh? Yea, I was depressed last night, still a little today but lil better then last night. By tomorrow the sad feeling will be even less, and like you said, the sad will pass and then I'll be thinking about the next visit and those feelings will over come the sadness. Then I visit him and it starts all over again, but I know when he comes home to me, all this pain of me missing him will be worth it. Would you mind emailing me? PLEASE. my addy is: Ucallmenonangel@aol.com. Thanks.
Hey lil one, I am glad you had a great visit and everything is back to normal now.
I know very much what you mean of being depressed after you leave visitation. For me the emptiness lasts thru the week until the next visit, other than the times we talk on the phone or I read my daily letters. Both do help a lot, but still aren't the same as spending time with them in person.
Great Story! To answer your question, no, I don't have a wife or a gf in prison, but I do write a few females that are in prison. I've written some friendly letters to some guys too, but they never write back. When I wrote the guys, I made sure that I mentioned that I am straight. I guess they're still not interested in writing other guys though. The girls however seem much more interested in writing back, but I haven't attempted to hook up with any of them. I'm not against having a relationship with someone who has been in prison, but I don't think I could be too serious about someone while they are still incarcerated. I would just prefer to wait and see what someone is like once they get out. Anyway, I think it's great that things are working out for you. Best wishes!