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Thread: When and How?

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    When did you know that you were in love with your pal?

    How did you know it was for real?? Were their signs or did it just hit you all of a sudden??

    I've been wondering this alot lately. I know i love all my pals, some more than others and in different ways. I was just curious when everyone knew that they were in love with their pal and how they knew it was for real. As everyone knows i had the best visit ever..... Now i sit and think about him non stop, not that i didnt before, but it's just different now. Sometimes i think i've lost my mind and wonder why i fell in love with this man......Sometimes i sit and think why worry about it and just go with the flow and let love happen as it happens.

    I dont know maybe if everyone sheds some light on their loved one then maybe i will be able to understand and realize that i AM in love with this man. I guess i just need someone to tell me it's ok to love this man in prison, i dont know!!!

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    awww Kristie...you're so sweet. Now that you've met face to face, do you feel in your heart the feelings are mutual? It's not all that crazy or uncommon to fall in love with a man in prison, you've been around here long enough to see that first hand. *smiles* Go with the flow girl but yet be very careful...the heart is fragile and when broken or tainted, can take a very long time to heal. Take your time and always listen to your instincts 'cause more times than not, they are right on..no matter how many times we try to deny them. When is your next visit girl???

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    My next visit is July 1st. I got my first letter from him since the visit and it didnt really say much, he's not good at expressing his feelings but were working on that. Were working on alot of things....hehe Anyways, in his letter he said not much to say about the visit it speaks for itself. I guess that means it went well. He talked about how he squeezed my butt when we were leaving and how it felt like charmin...haha i wonder if that was a compliment or not......lol I'm just gonna go with the flow and see where this all ends up at..... I do love this man with all my heart and cant wait to see him again on the 1st.....woohoo

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    Well i got another letter from my man today. I forgot to mention that he calls me "Boss" lol he's soo strange.....lol Oh well gotta love him anyways....... He said he thought he was gonna have to give me some drugs as excited as i was in that letter....lol Guess it showed huh?!?! oh well........i love him sooo much!! I found our wedding rings so now i gotta send the pictures to him to see if he likes them or not, i hope he does.

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    Kristie!...so we are talking uhhhh 'wedding flow' now girl??? *wooohoo* Girl, you're sumthin else now. Best keep us updated here! (((huggsss)))

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    Well Smilez.....He had asked me to marry him a few months ago and i told him i had to see b/c i didnt wanna jump into anything right away and he understood. Now i dont think i could imagine life without him!! So i told him that yes i would marry his silly butt!! So i guess you could say i am in love!!!

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    Rings, married, and you didn't TELL me?? I WAs in the room and you didn't breathe a word of THIS to me!! I'm hurt! Guess that means I'll be snubbed for wedding invitations too, huh?? Figures....no one likes a long winded Gator at their wedding I don't suppose! LOL!!

    Yes, you're in love, and have been for some time! You're just now getting around to admitting it to yourself, and soon to all of us!

    Hey, don't worry....It really IS okay to love someone in prison! We all do, whether or not we care to admit it or not! And just think of the advantages....You get to claim them on your taxes, you don't have to pick up their dirty socks or underwear, and you never have to worry about where they are or what they're doing!! They're always right where they're supposed to be!

    So I say go for it...and be happy! All my best to you, sweetie! You know I'm here for you if you need me!

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    are you kidding---we LOVE our gator girl!!! Hope things are going better for you J--you've been missed indeed. And yeh, looks like we have another wedding on the roster..*wooohoo* --i know shelley was planning a wedding and our novel...how 'bout you gator, any scoop for your lil Wapster buds?? (((huggsss)))

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    This is very exciting news. Shopping for wedding rings!! GREAT! You reallly do sound happy. I wish you all the best.

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    Well Gator i havent really told many people about this marriage thing so dont feel bad. I just let it slip on here and of course Smilez was right there to catch it (cant get anything past her) hehe I am the happiest i've been in a LONG time. It's just weird and all new to me. I'm getting used to it and i'm handling it better than i thought. My sister is all for me doing this, which i must say is very surprising to me. She sees how happy i am when i get letters from him and when i talk about him, how my face lights up. So i guess it is love. The first time we talked about getting married was on the phone....Then a couple weeks later he wrote me and said that since we'd just talked about it and he never officially asked me he asked me to marry him. I was floored. I'm just waiting for him to ask me at visit one time in person now..oh boy will that be a story to tell....hehe

    Gator your absolutely right, i wont have to sit at home and wonder where he's at or anything....I guess that's one of the good things huh!!!

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