it is not illegal hun, snail mail in prison is privilege. it is illegal to hold legal mail.

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yes it happens a lot just to punnish the prisoners.
i'm sorry to hear you are still feeling depressed are you feeling a little better now?
life can be so hard sometimes,the only thing i can say is try to be strong,keep yourself together.

hugs.

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Prisons make up their own set of rules, deny mail for no good reason, conviently throw mail away and you name it. I guess they figure no one is going to care about bad people locked up.

I know how you feel. When my man got in trouble and was on lock down they put him on for a month so for me ten days would be nothing. Just think I am sure it is harder for him then it is for you and just try to be strong for not only yourself but for him also. Things will get better. HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!!!

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Chris


" Your lips never speak out what your HEART does not feel!"

Being depressed can be hard.

We need to also remember that some depression is normal. It comes and goes. It’s when it seems to become a constant state of being that it is a concern. If you can’t eat, sleep, work or function or it’s nearing that point, I recommend seeking some kind of help. Whatever you feel is appropriate.

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"Thats it then, they will go on double, secret, probation..."

I agree but alot of times they wanna push pills on you. Situational depression is not helped by pills only chemical depression is. I know for me more then depressed I am mad at myself, and feel world would be a better place if I checked out. There are times I feel whatever I face is just waste of money because I was so drugged, drunk during my crimes that all prison is, is my punishment, and tax payers foot the bill. Besides they are saying 2012 is end of world as we know it, so why not go be reincarnated?

when being depressed the best method is talking about what is keeping you bussy in the head.
pills can help you trough the worse time,but in my opinion it's not good for the body ,mind and body get used on it like a drug.
it's not easy when you want to quit it's like withdrawal.

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[quote=Cherokee89 I agree but alot of times they wanna push pills on you. Situational depression is not helped by pills only chemical depression is.


[COLOR=blue]I totally agree with that statement Cherokee. [/color]

I went to a psychologist first time ever in 2000, I no sooner got out the situation that was hard to handle, that had occurred,and he told me what pills he wanted me on. lol

I passed on the pills, knowing I was only struggling to cope with what laid ahead. Then they say, well it will help you thru it !!! Right."
What i needed was to talk it out and take one day at a time. I did not want to go thru the normal emotions as a zombie. I needed to feel and deal thru the chain of emotions with a clear mind.

If it is a chemical imbalance,or so extreme one tends to not be able to function to do daily needs, that is when pills come into play. I think they are much to quick on the draw handing out meds and handicapping the process ine has to go through, of normal emotions caused or brought on by a real situation one is facing.

Talking and doing things one likes to do, helps relax ones mind, and in the end makes one stronger not co dependent. To face life head on whatever one goes thru.

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there is a huge difference between being depressed, and depression from a chemical imbalance.

chemical depression would normally require medication to correct the imbalance.

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