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| *The offender had a choice NOT to commit crime, the Victim didn't choose to be a victim.* totally agree with that.At least most are talking about the "poor" inmates,but what about the victims... |
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Extreme's like you are referring too inside, no I even think their personal mail should have restrictions as well as visits to be honest. Some offenses are seriously a concern to prisons and society security. So, I would NOT AGREE with saying, "ALL" should have a voice in a blog. Or say "no matter what they express". . There are blogs placed on the internet now, that I would think should be banned off the internet and anyone placing this crap should be fined, if criminal intent go to prison themselves. Sad, many think our prison overcrowding is due to violent heinous crimes, there are s many inside who should have been given rehab or mental help, community service probation etc, not prison at all. That is what is overcrowding the prison system. All the money, attention is going to the worse of the worse heinous acts done onto humans. Like raising three kids whom one is a problem, drains and gets all the attention and money cost the family lots financial and emotional,due too bad choices he/she continually created, and the ones struggling to do good, end up w/o any support no focus for them to aid to stay on track. Seems the same goes on in our prisons and society to me.
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I agree, the offender had a choice, cannot blame any other,not to commit a crime, the victim/victims did not choose to be a victim. I also feel the victims only court and jury as to their fate, was truely not a fair trail....beyond a doubt. On the same hand, there are those inside salvagable who will be out someday in society, for those I think we owe it if not to them, to ourselves to bring as much help to make that leap and stay on the right track, not create a hardened criminal, which they were not to begin with..
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| If a victims family found a blog by the offender, could they report it and have it stopped? I dont think all offenders have the right to have blogs or whatever. I know the victims familys dont have to look at them, but i dont think its fair that the offender gets to whine on about how bad prison is. they all know the penalties for the crimes they commit.
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__________________ "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" "Fall seven times, stand up eight" "Go back a little to leap further" Excellence can be obtained if you: care more than others think is wise; risk more than others think is safe; dream more than others think is practical; expect more than others think is possible. |
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The white man came here and slaughtered thousands of natives, settled and colonized the land, enslaved and oppressed the black communities, much like they have done world wide, believing they were doing what was right at that time for their own. You cannot look into another culture and expect them to have the same set of beliefs, holding them to your/our standards. You cannot have one without the other. Look at what many are teaching their own in your own back yard, that guns, drugs, violence, pornography, prostitution, promiscuity are all acceptable, just look at the games kids play on xbox. If you do not want to partake in any of that, what do you do? You CHOOSE not to read, watch, participate, also having the ability to report such things to authorities. So yes my choice would be to let others have freedom of speech until it is deemed inappropriate and unacceptable and then have the sites shut down. I would rather see that than be silenced altogether. You ask about whether a person who has abused another, sexually has a right to blog, playing the "victim of the prison system." My answer is yes, because if we start putting restrictions (verbal) on people based on their crimes i believe from all i know and have experienced myself you will do a disservice to the many that contribute in a positive way in our communities like peanut shared about her friend. If you ask how i would feel if i read anothers thoughts online that had abused me crying wolf, i no doubt would be angered thinking people were believing the "crap" but who am i too say this person is not experiencing those emotions, no matter what crime took place? Yes prison is a place of punishment and no doubt should be, but from all i have seen, experienced and come to learn it is not a deterrent, because like another has shared, it is full of addicts, people with mental health issues and many that become victims them self because of the system, including first time offenders and if prison itself was a deterrent there would not be so many in prison today as we see. Just like if the Death Penalty was a deterrent there would not be so many on the row and if longer sentences were a deterrent you wouldn't have so many people every day being sentenced to longer sentences. Do the victims have rights to? ABSOLUTELY.....but how do we get a perspective of the prisoners point of view if we do not allow him to speak? Of course there will be people that would/will exploit the blog, the same way that there are people that will try to exploit you writing a self help book, when they are only in it for the money, not trying to help you. While there will be people that will try to genuinely help you and are not in it for the money, but both sides of the coin are ALWAYS TRUE, even when we are talking about prisoners. So while some will try to exploit the situation there will be others that will be providing us with a true insight that we cannot get from anywhere else, and that insight is what ultimately will help us find some of the answers to the many questions we have. Because in order to find the cure we have to always look at the symptoms as well as the cause, so we will always need the prisoners prospective as well as the victims.
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| I'm sure their are many people who would like to see prisoners be locked up 24/7 and only eat bread and water. But those days are over and hopefully will never happen again.
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Not all prisoners will even be interested in putting there thoughts down, instead choosing to keep silent not caring what the world thinks, believes or see's. They do not even care enough about themselves let alone another. The only thing that concerns me when you place restrictions on another is that it is then left open for interpretation, and who is to say one crime is more horrific for the victim/s than another? If you restrict sex offenders for instance, why not those doing time for murder? Then if you look a little closer, those that have held others at gun point, bashed and robbed someone of all they have leaving them disabled, be it physically, mentally or emotionally why not restrict them? There is already things in place to regulate such freedom of speech, but who should and should not be heard based on their crime and beliefs? Much like religion and what some are teaching us their. Look at the 3 strikes law, it was originally passed for repeat violent offenders, but there are many serving under the 3 strikes that do not fall into that category, yet they sit behind bars for LIFE. If someone has a bog they have help in some form, so it is not just left to the individual. Then we as readers and individuals have a choice like i said earlier, much like i do with not going to sites promoting pornography. But i would rather have the choice than have it already made and taken from me, for me. I have a good friend from Romania and she speaks of the restrictions she endured growing up, so my choice will always be let the people have a voice no matter where they reside.
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