hello,every body
do i have a sad story about what happen to me it not easy to say this but i can say to myself i was use bye this woman for 2 years she did everything to get what she want and now is out of gatesville crain unit and now is free and livein with her lover that i did not or new about so here it goes and i hope many of you who are seein someone be very , very carefull in what they will tell you not many of the men or women are bad but some can be evil and trick you to beleave that they will love you and when it time to go home they wont tell you intill it to late and say i will be in this city for a bit and the red flags will come up little bye little and then it too late and you are hurt and heartbroken so here is my story about this woman i was seeing .

well it was little over 2 years ago when i came to this sit to find some woman that i would hope to settle down as i look i came on a ad of the name-(Moderator Edited) in the c. crain unit know at the time gatesville unit well at the time i wanted to see what she like so afther 5 letters later she sent me a letter wanted to know more about me and the things i like as time went on i got to see on our first visit an the first thing she ask me do you want to get marry i was off gard and i said yes i dont why i said yes but i did ok to move on as the month went on i did see now and then diffent mood swings and sometimes she not the same but at the time i did not think about it and i just said she on pms

anyway bye the month of dec or 2007 she want me to help her out in paying a lawer an i ask why because she did not have the money to help her and start get prole out eary like in 2009 as lease she this lawer name laura rimond that works with inmates to get them out early so she wanted to have me sent $100.00 amonth to get started man i was at the time just make it one job so as time went on she allways did not talk to much to the other women she kept quite to her self and say too much in what she later was uptoo and then in 2008 mid year thats when everything was changeing she want me to sent money to other inmates because now i know why she had alot of debts she owe and later i found out she was paying people from the out side and later she was ask more money an then i had to work a 2 job to get bye i wish then i knew i was con to pay her debts off

so months later now we are in 2009 she look happy and she knew it was getting near to be free and the last month till april little did i know she has allready made plans to move with some guy she told me she would be in dallas for 3 months and and then she would be comein home to me
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she sent me only to cards but ???? with no return address that was the first
red flag then another came same thing no return address ??????
2 red flag that when i was thinkin this not right and i have ask her what's up
well she told me she will sent me a post office box address ok 3th red flag
i did check at austin paroles information an call to find out where she is
well they told me she in longville tx not at dallas when i call her i told her
are you in dallas or near dallas she said what !!!! i am in dallas then i told her
i found out you are in longville tx she got tee off big time and she said i dont have to tell you anything then the dark side of this woman i care about change that she a very diffent person now

she has been liein from the start and now im out of $4,000 and now she dont give a crapp about it and she said i dont have to say anything to you i have a job over here well that says it all she plan this for sometime and i did not have a clue at all the last time i talk to her is august 15 and she was in a very bad mood so i said i wont call you and i have not it now 11 days plus now and i goin to see what will happen then but i will move on and try again here in write a prisoner i belive there is a good woman who does have a good heart and wants to setted down and have a family with me i know she here and i just have to be very carefull this time around

there are some good woman and there are some not good but she here and i just hope she there

so to everybody becarefull and i hope many of you out there do find a love that will be there with you thats a life time for the one person who you gave him or her a new lease of life

well people my wall of shame is mark --------(Moderator Edited) 17 years later and now out-- an ex-con and a big time loser in longville,tx

god bless and to all
have a good day
---------heartbroke-daniel----------

Firstly id like to say im sorry you went through all you did, but you should of started seeing the red flags way before she got out, all the money she was asking for doesnt seem right to me, ok now i know many of us do find love with a penpal, but its not normally something someone SEEKS to do, so coming back here to LOOK for another to fall in love with dont make a whole lot of sence to me, this isnt a dating site, hold on to your wallet this time.

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meant to say after i said to hold on to your wallet you cant buy someones love, so if its REAL love they wont want any money from you they wont ask for a penny.

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"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams"

"Fall seven times, stand up eight"

"Go back a little to leap further"

Excellence can be obtained if you:
care more than others think is wise;
risk more than others think is safe;
dream more than others think is practical;
expect more than others think is possible.

This is why at times advice here seems "harsh" , "uncaring " , "negative " or "unsupportive"

It is unfortunate that the OP was used by a prisoner . This is an example of why you should be very very careful.

The OP can contact TDCJ parole division regarding this . If he was her sponsor she is in violation .

Parole Division - home page

She might also be in violation of other conditions of her parole

He can also Contact TX BPP

Board of Pardons and Paroles Home Page

He can explain this to them and ask that his support be withdrawn
and why .


Both agencies will point him in the right direction . She probably will end up back ina TDCJ unit but not Crain

There is no excuse for her behavior and tolerating it only sends the message PPs are to be exploited and will not fight back .

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I would also very strongly advise that people do not use this as a dating site. Looking for a relationship with a convict is asking for trouble .

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Hi,

sorry you've gone through this.
Mean to say that I know but I hope you have learned your lession,eventhough in a pretty hard way.

yea, she ruined for everyone that whoever in jail. she deserved to get hit by a bus. thank for the lesson. my pp didnt even write me back.

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to: ase
im back and today as i read you note on what i should do there is one thing i want to ask about this if she aready out can i still let the parole division and the board of pardons and paroles still let them know what happen to me before and after she out will there be a someone to understand what she made me do before and afther ????

in a way i was a sponsor of senting her money before she got out and as for now and tell my story to the parole and pardons in a letter will there be a long shot if they might check intoo this matter i did sent many support letters to them and at the time she said she would be comein home to my family she wanted this done every month and i did sent them and more support of senting money as well at the time she did not have no one to help her i dont know if she was getting money from other people but as this goes on i kept some of letters from these inmates and as about her well what i been finding out now she was getting letters everyday and some from where she is now staying .

so the question is ??????? in what i do today and fight back on her and lies my letter to the parole and pardons division might or change that if this is true my letter will sent her back to the TDCJ because in what i have done in some of the violations before this ever happen and afther will there be good long shot when i tell them that she made me do many thing's behind the walls in gatesville and behind the parole board back beleave me i know too much in what she wanted me to do and the bad part of this her lawer knew about this too in order to set her free nomatter what her goal was to get out and not let me know where she at .

so what do you think my one letter might change that an sent her back where she belong's to sever out her remaining time-------i would love to see this and laugh and sleep good at nite why she all tee off and hate's me forever for me i dont care .

and one note ! ! ! this woman still calls me and the last time i talk to her i told her : you are a control freak and she say's im not then i hit her with a something i caught her off gard i was told from the inside where you use to be that you are a control person and you get upset very bad and you have a hot temper well you get the idea , when i said this man i felt good about what i said for the first time in many months i sure felt good in what i done she does not control me any more or my head i got her where it hurts the most and i hange up on her

so to this story she is very worry about me and the bad part i know too much and one thing i can do is get her back and she will be in jail

so my friend let me know and let everybody learn from my story i would like to know my letter will make the parole division change there mine
thanks --------------heartbroke-daniel

this is heartbroke-daniel
read my news update i think you might want to check out in what been happenen to me in the last 30 days or so i got her in my hand and now she very worry about me that i know to much.
check it out -------thanks friend

I am so sorry for the Monetary lost you incurred! But on the first visit "Marry Me?" forgive me if I am wrong but How well did you know this person.? The on the first visit marry me! I can see that if they wanted conjugal visits but then again i have to question your judgement. To want to sleep with someone you hardly know exept from a couple of letters. We all get taken at some point in our lives but we have to realize that it is a lesson learned and when we GIVE the general rule of thumb is not to expect anything back! thats what giving is. I am sure there was alot of red flags but we didnt want to see them. We wanted to make this person and ideal prospect for our purposes. The bottome line it becomes their lost move on and learn well!