Hey everybody! My name is Tina and I am sort of new. I stumbled upon this site in July of 2006. I just recently startedusing it for real. I am 32, from NYC but currently live in Richmond VA. I moved here in May 2006 and my experience with men here was pathetic. I told a friend of my that I was going to get a pen pal. I found the site and began searching. I ran across a few guys that were good looking. However, some were seeking donations. Some pages were so corny to me. Then I ran across one who kept it simple and straight to the point. All I wanted was a pen pal but instead I got a husband out of it. We got married in December of 2006. I know it was a very short courtship. I am a person who knows what she wants and gets it. If its meant to be it will be. No matter if its 5 months or 5 years of knowing that person. We are still married and very much in love and he comes home July of this year. People say why someone in prison? I say why not? He is a man that so happens to be in prison. Everyone makes decisons in life that are not always the best one. He just made some wrong choices in life and he is serving his time for that. Never judge a person because of where they come from or where they are now. Its all about where he goes!!!! Be blessed!! We are all in this together!!!