OK, I know I'm just not seeing something obvious, but how do I request someone to be a friend? People have requested to be my friend - friends at last! - and I'd like to reciprocate, but I don't know how.

If you are looking for the Buddy list, click on
the screen name and bring up the buddy list. It will appear at the top of the page that says add to buddy list.

Think it might be the 'red thing' that Hammie was talking about in another thread, CET...?

Yea - looks like the page is still broken.

I've added Gobbi to my Buddy list, but I can't access the new freind requests yet.