For those who don't know me I am a 49 year old white man. I'm thinking about writing a male prisoner and pretending I'm a female. My girlfriend does not like the idea that I write prisoners, so I'm not going to tell her. What do you think? Why should I tell her anyway - it's not like I'm cheating on her. Also, how could my girlfriend get jealous if I'm writing a guy? (Darlene - pass the Xanax)....

Dear Big Dog, I am shocked, wasn't it just a couple of weeks ago that you got upset over a girl writing to a guy after her boyfriend told her no, and you thought that was cheating, also I wouldn't write to someone and pretend to be someone your not, that is toying with their feelings and I think that is wrong. Does your girlfriend write to inmates? She might like it after she tries it. The xanax is in the mail! Darlene

umm well why bother wasting each others time when you start and base a relatiosnhip on lies, in truth any relationship in our lives should be based on truth as life is too short to play games. but that is just my opinion. I play it straight with all I know. arr

Alright, I get it, you are making a joke! ha ha, well it's late, and I have to get to bed, I do hope everyone has a good nite. Darlene

arriana, exactly! - you are a kind, caring person interested in building a relationship based on trust....Darlene, of course I would never do this. I'm just amazed at people who are deceitful in their relationships with others, but rationalize their behavior - then come here for support....

bigdog you trickster!!! I was just climbing on my high horse until I saw that it was a joke! Must say it got my heart pumping for a minute lol and I guess it was one way of getting across a point but dont do that again!!!!!!! I had ya pegged for one of the good guys and I hate bein disappointed!!
Take care & behave yourself!!!! pmsl
dreamer

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i am booty ~~lesssssssssssssssss

azz all laffed off

u slay me , lol lol lol

thanks for clarifying that part where I tell my penpals that I'm a guy!

Bigdog,for a moment you got me here.I am glad it was just a joke.I never could have believed that you were like that.

you didn`t fool me! Straight away I thought, oh yeah, whats he up to here!!!!
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