Well, if an old pp put up a new ad, then I know it is not a problem of stamps or something happened not good to them. So, I would not write since they stopped communication and leave it at that.

How would I feel, guess I would be glad they are trying to find someone to write, and atleast I did not upset them enough to not want to open up to others for whatever reason, they are looking for new outside pp's.

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Peanut, I wish I were that Zen !!!!

I really like "atleast I did not upset them enough to not want to open up to others"

Good point !

Since writing is an adventure n honest sharing, this has happened to me a lot, so I justify it by telling myself "I am not for everyone" as people's expectations of friendship change.

I do not make contact again, I move on to those that need my type of writing more!

Excellent post as always Merrill!

You might write and ask, just see what he says, if he replies. This happened to me once, and I wrote him again, just saying hi, and asking if I had done/said something to make him stop writing. About 2 months later he finally wrote me back, and basically told me that he was looking for a girlfriend who would "love me totally, and not want to be "just friends" with me". I had to give the dude credit, at least he was honest with me.