For those of you who have been here for a while, back in August I was suspended from visiting my favorite pp for some stupid choices. Ok, fine I accept that I made bad choices and there are consequences to that. Well we served the suspension and I was just notifed that my visits are reinstated but they are non-contact now. This F***ing sucks!

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Mom!!!

Don't know what happened. Guess it's none of my business. Sorry things worked out the way they did. It sounds almost like doing your time and then still being punished once you've gotten out. On the bright side, you can visit again. Seeing someone's face, and talking to them at the same time leaves your imagination wide open! Imagination can be in high def with pretty vivid colors sometimes! Hope your future visits are better than you're thinking they'll be. I still envy you! My PP is so far away I can't visit at all.

Chop

Thanks, yea I know I should be happy that I can go see him at all, and Im getting there. I was just thinking that once my punishment was over, it was over, but I have learned otherwise.

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Mom

Is there a chance they'll lift the non-contact restriction in the future? Might be worth asking about. Maybe there's a time limit on that too. Keeping my fingers crossed for ya!

Chop

I will get notice tomorrow of how long the non contact is and why and we can appeal the decision

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Keep us posted! Hope things work out for the best!

You know Missy i just want to say i'm sorry things have not worked out the way you both would have liked after the time served as punishment, seems like you are being punished further.
I also wanted to add a THANKYOU for sharing this with us. Why? because i can only speak for me personally, but now i know NEVER to send, write or talk on the phone about explicit sex. I would NOT choose to go through what you have both gone through. I will give them no reasons or excuses to forfeit my phone calls, letters or visits. So again i say THANKYOU for sharing, to serve as a warning for us all.
Hoping all will be reinstated for you both soon.

Mom!

Woohoooooo - you are getting your visits back I know that it sucks that they are non-contact, but hey any visit is better than no visit at all! Plus, there are lots of people who aren't able to visit their pp whenever they want to (overseas pp's or people living on a different coast) and they would loooooooove to swap places with you! It's not what you expected, but try to be happy with the things that you got and enjoy the fact that you'll be able to see your pp again

Thats great news momof6 x

Zosja you are so right. I am actually making a trip down today to see him, behind glass But none the less, I get to see that face! and that smile I am mostly upset that I cant take my son more than anything. Non contact vists are for adult visitors and children or minor siblings of the inmate, so my kids cant go

And smiley, you are welcome I knew the first time I posted about this suspension and why and all of that, that I would get ridiculed and people would say stuff which they did and some continue to, but I felt it was better for those of the forum to know this can and does happen.

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