i don't know if u guys remember that i had told u guys that i was gonna marry my byfrnd, well now i don't know if i wanna continue with it. every thing has changed i used to get a letter 4rm every other day phone calls twice a week and now i hardly get a letter or a call=[he says that he doesn't call me has he used to bcause he doesn't wanna give me xtra bill(which i do understand) but why he stopped writtin to me??? i wanna ask him but i just don't know how 2 start, can any 1 help me PLEASE????

I think I'd come right out and ask whats going on ,or maybe you should start backing off yourself and see what happens Ive seen a lot of heart ache on here and it breaks my heart for those who have dedicated and committing themselves to a prisoner only to be deceived and hurt in the end to I'd take this as a red flag and just be honest and write your feelings to him the question is will he answer you honestly ?
good-luck honey i really hope its nothing

i agree with dragon maybe it's a good idea to back off and see what's happening.
good luck to you sweetie xxx whiterose.

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Hmmm, thats weird. Has he been acting strange lately? Tourd the relationship? Has he been less talkative when you do talk to him?

Maybe he's going through something right now and just doesn't feel like talking to anyone. Although that still is wrong not to even call you. You should write him a letter telling him how your feeling. Ask him if somethings wrong, ask him what he's feeling, whats on his mind.

If you really want to know whats up with him, all you need to do is ask sweety! Communitcation is everything!

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i have written like to full page's askin him alot of question's and lettin him know how i feel but then at the end i throw them away. i feel like if over reactin but now that i asked i feel much better=] that's what i'm gonna do right know and ask him waht goin on etc etc...

I agree with dragoon only I would go further and sasy to simply say hey i have not heard from you lately just wondering how you are doing type of letter. I would not let on your feelings . I saw far too often guys reading stuff like that and really taking full advantage of that person
A lot of people have been very badly hurt and lost a lot of money and even free world relationships over a prisoner . Always remember youare in the free world and he is incarcerated usually fora reason weather we agree with thew law or sentence is another matter.
To me this ia a huge red flag .and part of the game to see if you will get upset over this and write a letter expressing all kinds of feelings . that will make you very vulnerable to all kinds of manipulation be very careful . You s do not know what he is really doing and trust is very difficult . They depend on this to scam and extort people all the time .
Backing of is a good idea if he wants to write he will there is almost always a way to get a letter toi soem one unlessyouhave very sever restrictions on you and are in ad seg within ad seg as in no contact no mail phone, and a limited time alone to exercise and or shower usually an hour in a small cage .
The I do not have stamps , in the hole, sick band so on is BS . If they are indigent they can mail a limited number of letters each week . It varies from state to state . There are also other ways to get a few stamps as they are a form of currency in prison .
These relationships rarely work it is best to just be a friend and if they get out then take it from there slowly

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Dont get married, if you're tripping about some late replies and thats something that would make you call off a wedding..

dont do it. Besides a prison fling usually doesnt last. Its good for the couples that do make it but i dont think they thought he isnt writing lets blow it all off..

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I think honesty rules especially with a pp. I think oine should live together for awhile to insure things are as written. Like others I would put off the wedding and insure you are getting what you want. My heart heals from all the breaks once I found the right inmate for my life.

I agree with Merrill C. if you don't have honesty with
your PP what does a person have.

thankz alot=] i'm just gonna do exaclty what ASE said i'm just gonna write a quick little note sayin hi how u been haven't heard 4rm u etc etc.... and wait and see what he'll say..