If an inmate tells you they want to be in your life and love isn't to far off? Should this be taken seriously or very lightly. Do they do allot of conning? How can you know, l mean do they start early or later. Should you always be aware of this??
Thanks,
Amy

Great question, amy. I don't have an answer for you. But, as with all situations in life, I say go with your instincts. If it doesn't feel right, then it's not right for you.

Hi just my two pennys worth! but yes you should always be aware and from my own experience I would not commit to anyone that I havent met in person.

Essexgirl has a very good point: writing with someone is one thing, but meeting each other, doing things together, well, that's a whole different ball game

I say get engaged, and get married in 20 years when he gets out. What do you have to lose?....

bigdog your too funny...lmao

Thanks everybody for the answers. Really Big Dog l think you're right I don't think l will be getting a big diamond ring, sniffle, sniffle
Oh well.......
Thanks Again,
Amy

this is just like any long distance relationship.. never commit until you meet in person .. then make the choice.. arri

Dear Amy, I would just like to say, be careful, some inmates have the gift of poetry and can sweet talk to woman to get them to feel for them, and with all relationship you don't want to rush into anything. Big Dog, be nice Peace, Darlene

i agree with dar, just take it slow and get to know the person alittle better