I appreciate you and everyone who does share their stories, even the not so good ones. I know they are very personal. Thank you I would just be very leary I gues if I was in love with the prisoner. IT's true you can get hurt by anyone even free people but you have a better chance of catching them in the act I think. Where is your loved is in prison, they could take you for your heart, your $$, oh the thought frightenes me. I did sneak and send my pal some money but my husband would NOT approve, but I don't feel bad about doing it. Is that wrong? Not like im' cheating on my husband, is it?? lol;