help guys...last night my pp told me that he had been recieving mail from another woman and i couldnt help but to feel really jealous!!!! is this normal i really dont know why im feeling like this as iam not normally a jealous person!!!!

Hi jj,
We are only human, and to feel jealous is totally normal.I guess that you feel more than friendship for your pp?
In some ways if he is writing to other people, it may help your and his relation/friendship. More to discuss and he wont be fretting about "no mail".
Also, he has been honest and told you he is writing to someone else, and you should be pleased that he is honest enough to tell you that, he must care for you or els ehe would just b/s you.
If you need to vent, here is the place to do it, and everyone on here is amazingly supportive and totally understanding.
Big hug....you are just being a caring human!
x

I think Samsarah said it so well and I agree with all she said. It's nice he is honest with you.

It's kinda normal.
But be honest you have friends here on the outside meet them,you also talk to other persons.
So just because he's locked up he can't ?He was honest to tell you so not really a reason to get jealous.

thanks guys..........just played with my head a bit thats all.....silly really cos i know he would never do anything to hurt me we been in touch for far too long for that!!
yeah its good hes honest....one of his better qualities!!!
thanks again everyone!!! xxxx

I think it's completely normal.

A lot of the people on this forum will not write to 2 guys in the same prison because THEY get possessive of their pals, why can't that happen for us on the outside?

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I think that it is perfectly normal. In anything we do, you always want to be the one. I felt the same way when I found out one of mine was having other girls visit him. LOL

You are as normal as anyone else. I know I have grown close to my female pen pal in TX.

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