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			<title>Release Fund</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2012 15:31:59 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>:detective:  Hi guys, my man has asked me to start a release fund for him, has anybody any ideas how to go about this in the UK. Can I just open a...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:detective:  Hi guys, my man has asked me to start a release fund for him, has anybody any ideas how to go about this in the UK. Can I just open a bank account in my name or does it have to be done in a different way. Also how can I start a Release DW page with any of the facebook type places. Please, any help greatly received. Nette :thx:</blockquote>

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			<title>It Happened,</title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 23 Oct 2012 10:47:43 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Hi guys, well it has finally happened, my baby loves me. He has said so in his last letters and even refers to me as his wife, although he hasn't...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">Hi guys, well it has finally happened, my baby loves me. He has said so in his last letters and even refers to me as his wife, although he hasn't asked lol I sent him a copy of my memoirs and he replied by asking me to listen to the music below.<br />
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<a href="http://youtu.be/LjhCEhWiKXk" target="_blank">http://youtu.be/LjhCEhWiKXk</a></blockquote>

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			<title>Do You Live in Wisconsin?</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 11:46:14 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>:chatterbox: 
Does anyone live in Wisconsin? My lovely man is incarcerated in the Columbia Correctional Institute and I would love to be able to...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:chatterbox:<br />
Does anyone live in Wisconsin? My lovely man is incarcerated in the Columbia Correctional Institute and I would love to be able to visit him. Do any of you have a spare room and would be prepared to show me around or can you recommend a motel. I have been told the the Super 8 motel is clean and friendly, but do you know how far and how easy it is to get from there to the prison?<br />
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Any suggestions anyone, I will be travelling from Northern Ireland and then England.<br />
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Thank you in anticipation.<br />
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Nette:thx:</blockquote>

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			<title>Poems wanted</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2012 11:40:18 GMT</pubDate>
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Hi guys, 
 
Do any of you have Pen Pals with a fantastic talent of writing poetry? 
 
I am compiling a book of short stories and...</description>
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Hi guys,<br />
<br />
Do any of you have Pen Pals with a fantastic talent of writing poetry?<br />
<br />
I am compiling a book of short stories and poetry to help incarcerated men and women. I am a published author of three books and am prepared to self publish the book to allow the royalties to be paid into each inmates individual accounts to help them with postage etc. I would need 3 poems (they can be free verse) from each person to make it worth my while.<br />
<br />
Let me have your views and ideas please and hopefully something will come of this. I have two names in the hat already and require 10 more. I must have all entries by 1st February 2013 and the guys would need to sign an agreement that they are prepared to share the revenue with the others whose writing appears in the book. If this is successful, I may consider doing another one.<br />
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Have a great day everyone.<br />
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Nette</blockquote>

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			<title>Crying into my cup of tea, seriously unhappy.</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2012 09:55:17 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[:acry2: Oh dear friends, I just can't speak to my baby. I live in Northern Ireland and have done everything in my power to connect with him. I have...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:acry2: Oh dear friends, I just can't speak to my baby. I live in Northern Ireland and have done everything in my power to connect with him. I have an American local number from localphone, I have an account with Correctional Billing, but I can't add any money to it. Why, are you sitting comfortably, I will begin?<br />
<br />
Firstly, for weeks I tried to open an account with Correctional billing, but didn't have an American zip code, then along came my man's friends woman who telephoned me with an American address. Bingo, or so I thought. I spoke with correctional billing again and then, &quot;you have to have an debit card with an American address, mine is an Irish address. Then, I contacted Walmart for a prepaid debit $ card, all was great until &quot;social security number wanted&quot; mine is English. OK, then I purchased a pre-paid $ card from Virgin and everything was fine. After opening the account I spoke with one of their customer advice members to ask if I could give the number of my new card to Correctional Billing to use. The answer was a big no no. Why? The legal system between the two countries does not allow it unless I am in America with my passport of proof to who I am.<br />
I have an American telephone number with localphone which is live, but it is of no use to my man without credit being placed on it for him to use. He is in a federal state prison so cannot buy a pre-paid card, which I sent him the money for before I was told that he can't use it. I don't mind about that at all as he can use the money for a treat or something that he needs.<br />
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I am now so upset, and sad that I cried myself to sleep last night after yet another attempt by him to phone me. Please if anyone can help, I would be very grateful. Are D and I destined never to speak. I am so afraid of losing him as our love has grown in strength, but we really need the intimacy of a phone call now.  Nette<br />
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:cuddle: needed, please</blockquote>

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			<title>Just a Quickie</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2012 12:08:18 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[:yup: Does anyone know if any of the prisons in Wisconsin have trailer visits for friends and family? I don't want to ask my man because I would love...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:yup: Does anyone know if any of the prisons in Wisconsin have trailer visits for friends and family? I don't want to ask my man because I would love to arrange a surprise for him with his daughters. Nette :thx:</blockquote>

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			<title>In Desperation</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2012 16:21:11 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Please oh please, will someone tell me if a Wisconsin prison inmate can purchase a pre-credit calling card to use with my localphone Wisconsin phone...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">Please oh please, will someone tell me if a Wisconsin prison inmate can purchase a pre-credit calling card to use with my localphone Wisconsin phone number. I have tried to find out from localphone, whose number I can not access, by e:mailing them to not receive a reply. I have telephoned the prison and left messages on various answer machines, got e:mail address for staff who have replied and told me they are not allowed to communicate via e:mail. What on earth is a girl to do? All this is making me go grey very quickly. I live in Northern Ireland and WI are 6 hours behind my time line, so apart from getting the wrong people to talk to is costing me a fortune, I am just now so confused. D still insists that I call Correctional Billing, done that too, can't get hold of them either as it appears that company is up for sale. HELLLLLLLP  Please. Nette</blockquote>

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			<title>Phone Call Crazy</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 02 Sep 2012 14:17:59 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>:detective: Guys, I know that I am driving you all mad. I joined Local Phone, brilliant, no problem at all. Asked if a prison inmate could call me...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:detective: Guys, I know that I am driving you all mad. I joined Local Phone, brilliant, no problem at all. Asked if a prison inmate could call me reverse charges, check no problem again. I then put $10 credit on my account and thought, &quot;yes, yes here we go baby&quot;. The prison in WI called me to say that it all checked out and that a note had been passed to my baby to allow him to call me. Great, or so I thought. Hmmm phone call came with an automated message and his name was read out, &quot;Hi baby, how are you I shouted&quot; all excited &quot;Hey baby&quot; was his reply and then an automated message to sign up for a prison billing service, huh. It took 8 minuets of trying to deal with this and then nothing. So I re-read all my letters for D's suggestions and tried to call the number he gave me for Correctional billing .com. What a farce, they would not accept my number calling them. Then I tried to e:mail them and my computer is not compatible with one of their programmes, so I can't make contact with them. I can open an account to speak with an inmate in Texas, yes!!! but not in Wisconsin. <br />
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Pleeaassee Heeeellllp a very unhappy lady living in Northern Ireland, any UK members have any ideas to help. My heart is almost broken. :uhh:</blockquote>

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			<title>Pulling My Hair Out</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2012 09:08:30 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>:hopmad::hopmad: Anyone writing to a prisoner in the Wisconsin Department of Corrections? 
 
Guys I have been trying to send a small payment to my...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:hopmad::hopmad: Anyone writing to a prisoner in the Wisconsin Department of Corrections?<br />
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Guys I have been trying to send a small payment to my friend in Wisconsin by Western Union for over two weeks now. Are you sitting comfortably lol I will begin. My friend sent me an official information leaflet from Western Union were he has received money on several occasions from his step brother without any problems. My first problem, I can not send money via internet because I live in the UK, so they mailed me with a phone number to contact with my friends details assuring me that everything would go like clockwork.:uhh:<br />
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I have tried the phone number twice now and gone through the full process of sending the money until they inform me that WIDOC is no receiving money for prison inmates at the moment, What!!<br />
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Can anyone tell me how to send a money order, do I need a special form from my friend to accompany this or can I just send it direct to him? I am so sad people. Help. Nette:shrug:</blockquote>

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			<title>Trust Fund</title>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2012 12:19:26 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>:detective: Hi guys, has anyone any knowledge, or experience of setting up and running a trust fund to help an inmate with his court cases? I live in...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:detective: Hi guys, has anyone any knowledge, or experience of setting up and running a trust fund to help an inmate with his court cases? I live in the UK, and would be so grateful for any advice. Nette x</blockquote>

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			<title>Canteen List.</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jul 2012 11:15:23 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hi guys, 
 
How are you all today? I hope this little note from a sunny Ireland makes you smile.  
 
Yes, it is I, the pain in the neck seeking help...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">Hi guys,<br />
<br />
How are you all today? I hope this little note from a sunny Ireland makes you smile. <br />
<br />
Yes, it is I, the pain in the neck seeking help again. Do any of you have a Nevada or a WSPF Boscobel, canteen list. I can't seem able to get information anywhere.<br />
<br />
Thank you again for all your support.<br />
<br />
Nette <br />
xx<br />
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			<title>Recipes for Fund Raising</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 09:34:14 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hi guys, 
 
I am asking you all to share your tray bake recipes with me as I am hoping to bake for a craft fair to try and raise funds for my PP on...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">Hi guys,<br />
<br />
I am asking you all to share your tray bake recipes with me as I am hoping to bake for a craft fair to try and raise funds for my PP on death row. He is desperate for a TV and is going stir crazy after being incarcerated for 19 years already. I want to bake for an indoor market stall once a week, so all ideas are truly welcome. <br />
<br />
Also anyone with interesting recipes for preserves/ jelly and chutney. I have an apple tree in the garden and a gooseberry bush and lots of the lovely elderflower shrubs around the fields. Tips please.<br />
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Thank you all.<br />
<br />
Nette:thx:</blockquote>

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			<title><![CDATA[This just can not be happening. I'm too sensible for this!!]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jul 2012 12:21:01 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>:yup: Oh girls, and guys I am in such a pickle. I am new to this site and you have all been great and helpful recently. I am 55 years old and fairly...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">:yup: Oh girls, and guys I am in such a pickle. I am new to this site and you have all been great and helpful recently. I am 55 years old and fairly worldly wise, but I think I am going into early senile dementia lol <br />
<br />
I have been writing to a PP for three months now, my original one from another site, and I think I am falling in love. This guy is so charming, writes me poetry with every letter. Shares his heart with me, although not his crime because I have said I don't really want to know. It is nothing concerning the death or rape of anyone. He too has started to feel the same way, but as he says &quot;it is not uncommon for a man dying of thirst to fall in love with the first one who gives him water.&quot; He really has his head screwed on, and I fully agree with his thoughts. But, come on, I am not depending on anyone for a life line and this is so stupid. <br />
Will someone please talk some sense into me before I get hurt?<br />
<br />
Nette :uhh:</blockquote>

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			<title>He wants my phone number</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2012 09:27:32 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hi guys, it is your pesky newbie pickling your heads again lol I have started to write to a 2nd PP and have only written one letter. He has replied...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote class="blogcontent restore">Hi guys, it is your pesky newbie pickling your heads again lol I have started to write to a 2nd PP and have only written one letter. He has replied with two letters declaring his love for me, it is just so over powering, and he has asked for my phone number, which I will decline when I reply to him. At first I wasn't going to reply, but I do understand how lonely he must feel. Can anyone give me a few tips of handling this relationship, and could you tell me are phone calls paid by the receiver. Thank yooouuuu. Nette :):yup:</blockquote>

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			<title>WSPF Boscobel</title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 14:02:31 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>:dunno: 
Hi everyone, I have been writing to a guy in W.S.P.F Boscobel for a couple of months now, but I am uncertain of what I am reading about the...</description>
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Hi everyone, I have been writing to a guy in W.S.P.F Boscobel for a couple of months now, but I am uncertain of what I am reading about the prison. Sometimes, all the things I read are that this Supermax prison was set up to house the most difficult to handle prisoners in the state. Other things I have read is that this prison houses a great many inmates who are suicidal, or with mental issues. My PP is very well educated, and has a very endearing personality, yet I can find no information about his crime in the public domain. Each time I try, I am blocked. Does this mean that his crime is so horrendous as not for public viewing, or am I looking in the wrong place? I don't want to ask my pp directly just yet. I know I am being a coward, but I am afraid of what I may hear. Anyone else know anything about this Supermax prison in WI? Any help would be appreciated. Nette :)</blockquote>

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