EasyRider

You could always write a short note and be totally honest: "If I've insulted you, let's talk." Or, even if it's a short note just wishing him well with whatever he's up to. Maybe he'll respond to that. I too hate it when they disappear.

Maybe you could do both? Move on to another one but hope that he'll respond sometime? It's hard to know what they are going through. Maybe he is going through a hard time right now. It might pass and he'll start writing again. In the meantime pick another friend out and see if something can connect with them?

I think I just might do both. I can send him a card wishing him the best, but do I ask for a response like I want to? I just need to know that he is okay! No explanation necessary, just a word to know that he is fine.

Honestly, I've already picked out a second PP. I've written up my first letter, but just as I was ready to send it I got this guilty feeling. Usually my gut is right so...I'm just torn.

Thanks for the response guys, I really appreciate it!

Oh baby, I know exactly how you feel. I am in the same boat. My PP had become really inspirational to me and would write return of post, I am worried too at his lack of correspondence, then I read about some prisoners having mental health issues. I hope that you receive news from him soon. The advice that the other girls have given is great, all I want to add is "go with your gut feeling," Nette x

He could be in the hole and they don't get their personal items like paper envelops and i don't want to burst your bubble but they also write more than one person so don't feel quilty