It's done, its over, I told the truth!
Posted 08-27-2008 at 11:19 PM by chicksta
I feel as if a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders!!! I did it last night, I wrote him a long letter telling him how disapointed I am, and how I know all about his lies and games.
I wasn't nasty in it at all, I was truthful and didn't hold back, but I never insulted him a called him a 'jerk' or anything like I was tempted to do!! lol.
I spoke to the other girl, and thankfully, she has agreed with me that we shouldn't go through with that plan we had before... As nice as it would have been, it just wasn't the right thing for us to do, we are better than that, we are better than him, and by doing it the way we have, we've proved that. She's written a very similar letter to him (She read me hers, and I've sent her a copy of mine) and I think we've done very well considering the circumstances! We've both posted them off yesterday (She's in Germany, I'm in Australia) so he should receive them around the same time.... We talked for awhile wondering what he will do next.... Will he try and give us a reason for what his done, and try to continue to lie? More than likely, he does seem to be quite insane.... I did say to him though, that she and I are friends and will remain that way, so if he feels the need to reply and explain himself (and I won't be offended if he doesn't) then not to keep lying, because there is no point anymore, we won't be continuing our friendships with him... But you never know what his resposne will be...
Both she and I have also kept copies of the letters that we are sending to him, just incase he writes to us and tries to get abusive or nasty or anything - then we really can report him, and we'll have proof that we didn't provoke it in anyway...
This has been a stressful few weeks for me, but very eye opening, and I've really learnt a valuable lesson - just because you want to believe the best in someone, doesn't mean that they are trustworthy. Lets hope I never get played like this again, but I may not be able to stay as calm!! haha.
But about my other, nice pen pal? I sent him back a nice card back with cupcakes on it and said that I was sending him some yummy cupcakes on a card because the real thing won't fit in an envelope (lol) and how thankful I was that my friendship is so important too him.... He also knows a little bit about this other jerk pen pal, so I'm going to tell the nice one more about it soon, and just how thankful I am that he is so kind, because without him, I may have given up on prison pen pals all together, and that would be sad, there are too many worthwhile, honest people who want a pen pal.
Well, for now, this situation is a closed story!! I doubt that I will hear back from him, but if I do, I'll keep this blog updated with it...... A big part of the reason I've wanted to keep this blog updated with all this is not just because I want to vent (which is part of it! lol) but because hopefully people who read it will be wary of their pals too, and not to distrust them, but if I can stop just one person from getting into this same situation as I have been, then I think it is all worth it!!
I wasn't nasty in it at all, I was truthful and didn't hold back, but I never insulted him a called him a 'jerk' or anything like I was tempted to do!! lol.
I spoke to the other girl, and thankfully, she has agreed with me that we shouldn't go through with that plan we had before... As nice as it would have been, it just wasn't the right thing for us to do, we are better than that, we are better than him, and by doing it the way we have, we've proved that. She's written a very similar letter to him (She read me hers, and I've sent her a copy of mine) and I think we've done very well considering the circumstances! We've both posted them off yesterday (She's in Germany, I'm in Australia) so he should receive them around the same time.... We talked for awhile wondering what he will do next.... Will he try and give us a reason for what his done, and try to continue to lie? More than likely, he does seem to be quite insane.... I did say to him though, that she and I are friends and will remain that way, so if he feels the need to reply and explain himself (and I won't be offended if he doesn't) then not to keep lying, because there is no point anymore, we won't be continuing our friendships with him... But you never know what his resposne will be...
Both she and I have also kept copies of the letters that we are sending to him, just incase he writes to us and tries to get abusive or nasty or anything - then we really can report him, and we'll have proof that we didn't provoke it in anyway...
This has been a stressful few weeks for me, but very eye opening, and I've really learnt a valuable lesson - just because you want to believe the best in someone, doesn't mean that they are trustworthy. Lets hope I never get played like this again, but I may not be able to stay as calm!! haha.
But about my other, nice pen pal? I sent him back a nice card back with cupcakes on it and said that I was sending him some yummy cupcakes on a card because the real thing won't fit in an envelope (lol) and how thankful I was that my friendship is so important too him.... He also knows a little bit about this other jerk pen pal, so I'm going to tell the nice one more about it soon, and just how thankful I am that he is so kind, because without him, I may have given up on prison pen pals all together, and that would be sad, there are too many worthwhile, honest people who want a pen pal.
Well, for now, this situation is a closed story!! I doubt that I will hear back from him, but if I do, I'll keep this blog updated with it...... A big part of the reason I've wanted to keep this blog updated with all this is not just because I want to vent (which is part of it! lol) but because hopefully people who read it will be wary of their pals too, and not to distrust them, but if I can stop just one person from getting into this same situation as I have been, then I think it is all worth it!!
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