A reminder not everything is bad with PP's!!
Posted 08-26-2008 at 11:22 PM by chicksta
I’ve been thinking more and more about this ‘plan’ to teach him a lesson, and I really don’t think I can go through with it. It just seems so… not like me! Realistically, I don’t think he is going to learn from this no matter what we say or do, so what’s the point? I don’t think there is one.
Plus a wonderful lady, FromDusk wrote a comment on my last blog that really got me thinking, and I think I just need to be honest and straight up about this situation, more lies and games aren’t going too get anyone anywhere, it just stresses me out more, and I really don’t need that. So now I have to try and find the words to explain this to the other girl, and then find the honest truthful words to my PP… Well, old penpal now….
I’ve also been thinking about ‘reporting’ him to the write-a-prisoner site… But I’m not really sure there is much they can do? I guess really, he hasn’t done anything wrong, not anything illegal or anything like that, he’s just been morally wrong and taken people for granted… I wonder if both I and the other girl complained, that they would do something? But I don’t know what they’d do… Hmm… I might check out the FAQ’s or something and find out what they recommend…
Anyway, I don’t want to keep filling this blog with stressful and sad things, so I’m going to write about something NICE that’s happened to me with a penpal!!! I have another PP that I’ve been writing too for awhile who has always been very kind and never asks me for anything except letters (and photos! Haha) and always writes long interesting letters…. He sent me a store bought card yesterday that has a wonderful quote on it by Max Lucado…
"Bleassed are the available.
Blessed are the conduits,
the tunnels, the tools.
Deliriously joyful are the ones who believe that if God
has used sticks and rocks to do His will,
then He can use us."
I’m not religious, so I had to find out what it means… apparently its something like: ‘being available to do good, being used to do good, good flows through you, if God can use sticks and rocks to create the heavens and earth, man and woman, then He can use us for good’… It’s very sweet of him!! Also, what he wrote inside the card was very sweet!! (He is a very shy person) "I just want to thank you Alison for being so nice and understanding... I owe you more than you could imagine... You’re a very special person to me... Thank you.... You don't judge people, yet you have beliefs and morals that you stand too, that amazes me".... Isn't that just lovely?
He then also followed it up with "People don't ever see the good side of sh*t
" haha... not quite as charming, but sweet I guess. Lol
But after all that I’ve been through with that other jerk, its just so nice to know that I’m appreciated, and its also a wonderful reminder that not everyone is nasty and cruel and just wants to take advantage….!!
Plus a wonderful lady, FromDusk wrote a comment on my last blog that really got me thinking, and I think I just need to be honest and straight up about this situation, more lies and games aren’t going too get anyone anywhere, it just stresses me out more, and I really don’t need that. So now I have to try and find the words to explain this to the other girl, and then find the honest truthful words to my PP… Well, old penpal now….
I’ve also been thinking about ‘reporting’ him to the write-a-prisoner site… But I’m not really sure there is much they can do? I guess really, he hasn’t done anything wrong, not anything illegal or anything like that, he’s just been morally wrong and taken people for granted… I wonder if both I and the other girl complained, that they would do something? But I don’t know what they’d do… Hmm… I might check out the FAQ’s or something and find out what they recommend…
Anyway, I don’t want to keep filling this blog with stressful and sad things, so I’m going to write about something NICE that’s happened to me with a penpal!!! I have another PP that I’ve been writing too for awhile who has always been very kind and never asks me for anything except letters (and photos! Haha) and always writes long interesting letters…. He sent me a store bought card yesterday that has a wonderful quote on it by Max Lucado…
"Bleassed are the available.
Blessed are the conduits,
the tunnels, the tools.
Deliriously joyful are the ones who believe that if God
has used sticks and rocks to do His will,
then He can use us."
I’m not religious, so I had to find out what it means… apparently its something like: ‘being available to do good, being used to do good, good flows through you, if God can use sticks and rocks to create the heavens and earth, man and woman, then He can use us for good’… It’s very sweet of him!! Also, what he wrote inside the card was very sweet!! (He is a very shy person) "I just want to thank you Alison for being so nice and understanding... I owe you more than you could imagine... You’re a very special person to me... Thank you.... You don't judge people, yet you have beliefs and morals that you stand too, that amazes me".... Isn't that just lovely?
He then also followed it up with "People don't ever see the good side of sh*t
" haha... not quite as charming, but sweet I guess. LolBut after all that I’ve been through with that other jerk, its just so nice to know that I’m appreciated, and its also a wonderful reminder that not everyone is nasty and cruel and just wants to take advantage….!!
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