Originally Posted by smiley

You know what? This happens OUT HERE ALL THE TIME!

NOTHING......and i mean NOTHING separates those inside from all of us out here, People use people ALL THE TIME for self gain, all we can do is not only watch their words and actions, but look around see how they treat others, even inside. Take things slowly don't give $$$$ so eagerly and those who are genuine will still be around in years to come and the one's after a meal ticket will spread a net in other waters to try their luck, so will not bother you after a time. I'm sorry this happens to many, but to be honest i think in your case from little you have shared you could of saved yourself a LOT of grief in the early days.