Thanks for the advice and welcomes.

I googled his name and found an ad for him on friendsbeyondthewall.com. He has had over 800 views for that ad. He seeks correspondence with female only in that ad, but is listed as gay on this site. I will write him a nice reply letter but bring up some of my concerns. With school work and preparing to start a business early next year I don't have time for games.

I'll try to post on some other threads I don't want to be a leech. This is one of the nicest internet communities I have ever seen, thanks again for the advice.