Amen to ASE and Roxanne for telling it like it is. Nobody is against "warm, fuzzy, feelings", but it is impossible to look into the future and to know what "it's going to be like". I think that the best advice, here, is to wait until your PP gets out, and then start from scratch. Go slowly, get to know them and go from there.

It is just like buying something from a high-pressure salesman. They tell you that you have to buy it, right now, or the deal is off. Afterwards, you are filled with regret and realize that you have been bamboozled. The same can be true of relationships, if you don't take the time to look around, let the smoke blow away and weigh all of the factors and your options.
Just my 2 cents.

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