now im not trying to be anti relationship or vice versa and i can see everyones point your still going to want to take it slow no matter where you meet the person but the point i was trying to make is it doesnt matter if its in prison or a person you meet in a bar ..they all can miss lead it doesnt matter where they are sitting there was a guy here in canada who had been caught having married two women one from ontario one from alberta he wasnt from a prison .. i know alot of people who dont say what goes on in their world, but what they wish to tell you that being said my point was even though some can be misleading so can anyone else for my myself personally i want to wait until my pp is out to meet him not because of the fact hes sitting in prison but the fact then i can have longer to be around him to get to know him .. hes supposed to be out this october,i can relate more to my pp then i can to most people that are on the outside i have a set routine i have to do everyday .. i dont go out and do what i want from my chosing of course but then its better then leaving my kids with someone i hardly know just to go have a coffee with a complete stranger ..i just dont see why some people place a stigmatism on where they met someone .if i chose to form more then a friendship with my pp then it would be something i would do once hes out but its still nice to get to know him by writing letters and phone calls