Nice Posting I would be very interested in hearing answers to those questions as I will be put in the situation of no walls between us in a year. Posiably sooner.

Having spent time in a military school ( I know, no comparison ) I know what it is like to be brainwashed and back on the outside. I do remember my friends went through alot to de brain wash me. Will it be the same sort of thing?

I have read alot recently on the physical challenges. Like getting jobs , etc. What are some of the mental blocks? Nightmares, odd sleeping schedules, fast eating habits?

What about readjusting thier kids to them? especially one that is so young he really would not know her as a mom? I think he does. Just not sure on that one.

I know there are alot of relationship haters on this forum. But it would be nice to see this thread go in a positive direction. and hey -- I would rather meet the love of my life while incarciated then intoxicated.

I for one like it this way. It has given us a chance to know each other with no materialistic boundries. Nothing but words and letters. Lots of lots of letters.