I disagree. Love does not equate to doing anything your loved one asks of you, in my opinion. Love is more like knowing when to say enough is enough if you can see they are on a destructive path. Love is knowing your own limits and not promising to do more than you are comfortable, or willing, or able to do.

I love my husband with all my heart, but there are plenty of things I would not do just because he asked me to, and he knows that. He also knows that my refusal would not mean I loved him any less (although if he asked me to lie for him, for example, knowing that it is something I will not do, then I am likely to love him less because he has thought less of me by even asking).

__________________


$10,000 for 'new server'...
$700 per month for running costs...
lieing and taking advantage of vulnerable people ~ priceless