AngelBear, i think for me the feeling of helplessness is the hardest one to over come. I try and look at it in a different light so i do not struggle so much, but no matter, it comes back the same.
I hope your wife is well and finds her strength in not only you, but the powers that be.
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Smiley, thank you very much, I appreciate that. I can tell you, not only has this situation brought about a new found love for each other but has also opened both our eyes to the Lord. We have both always been believers but this has caused us to really take a look at our lives and really strengthen that bond between us and God.

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Forgive quickly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably!
Leave the rest to God