Penny I don't mind sharing somethings if it helps of course There are things I prefer not to talk about unless I really have to for very good reason .
I too could never promise i would not fight in prison that is part of the mentality at least for men .IT not not that all of them want life to be like that but a few do make life hell for every else . A lot of Bosses and Rank encourage this and use it as a means of "control " by not doing anything or actively participating in the crimes/ extortion selleing of contraband . I saw more than one dirty boss involved in this themselves and walked off . If the truth be known Guards are the biggest cause of problems in prison by their action or inaction .As well as bringing in most of the contraband .Some bosses are worse than those they are watch over
So If i help one person it is good .
Angle w/o wings if you want PM me maybe I can help you a little or at least give you some advice to pass along you and your son .