Sorry to hear where your son is going through.

I just voted the answer what is the most common to do when your inside. I wish i could give another answer. But all inside has to do with how you behave and own respect. I guess this is the only way to own that. Sad, but true. (i voted fight and risk.....)

Wish your son all the best with the decision he will make. And also all the strenght for you.

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