well it was by pure accident really a friend of mine was going to do prison ministry i thought first of all why i was really negative to the idea so i begane to research it then i came across this sight the intoduction really made me feel sad and drew me in i came across the ad's of prisoners not recieving mail and as i went threw them i was like yea this one just looks like a murder etc ..and i'd guess their crime ....and scoffed at the way some of them had the nrve to put what they expect out of a women etc the femals were all looking for a man then i came across my friends ad he was just looking for a friend not a relationship i liked what he had to say it was the holidays so i decided why not and wrote him i never thought i'd ever do something like that but well here i am today 3 years later with a whole other attitude never say never