well, it's an interesting situation that brought me here to WAP...I had a neighbor who became incarcerated for robbery,and I never really spoke to him but a fw times. Anyway, he had a teen son who I heard died from an overdose. So, feeling horrible I looked up where this gentleman was and sent my condolences. I could only imagine how he must have felt! I grew suspicious however, when after like 2 months of writing on a freindly level he stated his love for me, and how he wanted more. Through the grapevine, I heard this guy was a player, and to be careful. I heard he had ads like everywhere, so I investigated and this site was the first on the search engine. Well, I never knew so many people wrote to prisoners! to be honest it's something I Never thought I would do.Long story short, I found the love of my life here quite by accident,,,,his words touched me, and for me that was a first. I took a chance and decided to write my future husband..feeling almost like I knew him from somewhere? anyway, we clicked and now, here I am . He was the only guy I wrote too, after I ended correspondence with my neighbor. I never even considered writing to anyone else,as I only wrote to him due to this compelling feeling that was almost nostalgic. Now here I am married, with 2 babies and another on the way this October!