Gypsy-awww hun, its rough I know! part of the life of a prisoners wifey is never knowing what could happen with him from one day to the next.. he could be moved,ticketed, thrown in the box,sent to a medical you just never know. try to focus on the + because if u dont thats how many times relationships of this type begin to fail. when the goin gets tough -get tougher..!!! you will have many more birthdays to celebrate hun and at least he is Ok...take it a day at a time and try to keep busy. write him how you feel, it makes you feel closer to him at times like this when u cant be together physically.