That is a good question and something that I think about for my guy. He has not been in but like 2 or 3 years but he is facing 13 I think or was it 10 anyway I wonder about him too me and his mom talk all the time now and she tells me stories about him like how he was when he was growing up and I wondered too if he would at different it if that’s something that I could handle I feel that when they first come home you would have to be so selfless and there for them like they would a child don’t have kids so I really don’t know to do that. It was funny that it was noted on how they eat my friend baby daddy he spent time in county and when he first came home he would want to eat roman noodle and mix chips with them or other crazy stuff like that. So I guess we will have to read up on our prison gourmet. When I talk to my guy I’m going to ask and see how he thinks that he was be different from being locked away