Hi Sweettalk,
I am an older married man, and I had the same problem. My wife wouldn't let me have a relationship with a female prisoner. :-)
However, I have found a nice mature lady, to whom I write. She is (age is classified info) and is always looking for new PPs. She says that so many of them are just a "flash in the pan". They write once or twice and then they are gone.
If you are interested and would care to e-mail me at Xray48@aol.com, I will give you details.
Attn. Moderators. My PP has an ad on WAP, so it should be OK for me to say this, I would think.