Ya know funny thing you mentioned that budman....One of my pen pals and i were having a little dispute and he asked me if i was one of those girls who watched those kind of shows and picked my pen pals. That's kinda crazy. I may be a mailman stalker but i dont watch the tv and write to them from there. My sister and i were talking the other night and one of my pals from ohio is in for murder and she said what if you seen his story on tv a long time ago when it happened, which i'm sure was publicized, would you write to him still. I dont remember seeing his story on tv or anything but at that time i wasnt into doing this...Then her and i got into that discussion. I said i dont watch the news at night to see who's going to end up in prison and pick my pals that way geesh what do they think i am some kind of crazy girl?? hehe