Dark Love, I read Smilez post as to be referring to the other lady too.

I am truly sure that neither Smilez,(who is a most supportive lady), or anyone else here was intending to be hurtful to you.

Hell, its challenging enough supporting and maintaining a friendship with our pp`s, with the many "negative" feelings from outside people, without quarreling with each other here.

Gator is right. We are all on the same team.