WHOA, Dark love!!! Back up, just a minute! Calm down....Smilez was just talking about the woman who still wants the man in her life, knowing he raped your daughter. She wasn't being mean, nasty or rude at all. Smilez is one of the sweetest most likeable, most caring people on this board, and I am SURE if she had one thing to say to you that would make you feel she was being rude or critical, she'd take it up with you via e-mail and not put it on the board for all to see like that. I am sure you just misunderstood things.

Judging people is NOT what this site is about. I think you have seen that for yourself, or you wouldn't have joined the group. What we ARE about is support, respect, and helping others to cope with having a loved one incarcertated. It is a RULE that we don't belittle one another or make fun. Ask anyone, we have seen our share of people asked to leave because of it.

While I can understand your anger because you misunderstood Smilez, this is one of those things that we'd normally take up in e-mail to get straightened out. Then, you wouldn't offend anyone else with your angry remarks about us as a group, before you realized that you'd just misunderstood.

I am not being mean or judgemental here. I just wanted you to know that we're a great group of folks who would NEVER insult you on the boards like you thought. Please accept my apologies for the fact that you misunderstood, and were angered or hurt. It is not the intention of any WAP member to anger, hurt or otherwise upset another. Remember we're on the same team here! : )